At first, we should "DARE TO BE DIFFERENT"
The second, we need to "APPRECIATE AND ENJOY DIFFERENCE"
The key is "DON'T JUDGE". Don't judge others and also don't allow others to judge you (Don't feel bad for others' bias.)
At first, we should "DARE TO BE DIFFERENT"
The second, we need to "APPRECIATE AND ENJOY DIFFERENCE"
The key is "DON'T JUDGE". Don't judge others and also don't allow others to judge you (Don't feel bad for others' bias.)
• exactly! don't judge others but don't judge yourself either. -clipmom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:07:07
• 自己settle了就没有这个问题,how much you accept yourself,成年人应该已经解决了这个问题 -洲河- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:13:17
• 得, take personal了吧? -worriedmom1- ♀ (203 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:13:17
• 这是理解能力的问题 -洲河- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:30:21
• 挑衅语言:) -worriedmom1- ♀ (72 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:34:57
• 还给你。参看下面的回答 -洲河- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:37:10
• 我现在就看出你的问题来了。你如果只混在亚裔圈里,怎么体现你这2条呢? 哈哈, -知福惜福- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:13:13
• 你要融入别的圈子里,才能精彩的体现你这2天啊。就好比你老是苹果跟苹果比,有区别大吗?要去给香蕉比,你才可以体现你的DIFFERE -知福惜福- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:15:02
• 关键我本人没有任何问题,我是在分析问题 -洲河- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:19:18
• 我也是从纯理论上和你讲啊,并没有说你个人怎样。只是看你体会错了别人的话,然后引用到错误的地方而已。 -知福惜福- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:30:01
• 一样,这是你的理解能力的问题 -洲河- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:31:34
• 我并不认同要停留在亚裔圈子里,不可能,也没有好处。上亚裔多的学校不是一码事儿 -洲河- ♀ (55 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:36:03
• 而且没有人停在纯亚裔的圈子 -洲河- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 10:25:15
• 即便是在纯亚裔甚至纯中国的环境中也是有这两点。 -三月花开- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/21/2011 postreply 11:07:23