在线求助!!! please--accidently leaving kid home

来源: rellc 2011-05-17 19:34:10 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (2433 bytes)
Hi everyone:

I am in CT. Last Sunday I accidently left my second one (5year) at home (for about 10 minutes) by herself and was asked to go to court next Monday.

Starting morning on that day, my hu*****and said he would bring my second one to Flushing,NY in the afternoon. As my first one had piano lesson at 5:15pm, I did not say no.

After late lunch, I brought my two kids upstairs for nap.

I woke up at 4:00pm. had shower
4:20pm. gave my first one shower
4:30pm sent my first one downstairs to practice piano. Found out that both my front door and back door were widely open. I thought my hu*****and opened them for fresh air. Went back to upstairs to give my second one shower.

During this time, another neighbor's granddaughter (9 years old) rang door bell and wanted to play with my two kids. I told her that my first one needed to practice piano and the second one needed to go Flushing so she left.

After my second one's shower, it was about 5:00pm. As it needs about 15 minutes to drive to the piano teacher's house, I told my second one to go upstairs to find daddy (My hu*****and and I have own bedrooms because of a lot of reasons) and asked my first one into the car.

After we got into the car, I found out that there was no gas. So I managed to call the teacher that we would be about 3-5 minutes late as I had to get some gas, while I was driving. My cell phone showed that the call was made at 5:03pm.

Somehow it was very smooth, I meant, no traffic, no red lights, we made it on time. That is , we got there at 5:15pm.

A little while after the piano lesson was started, I got a call from police asking me go home immediately. I looked at my cell, it was about 5:30p.m.

I went home immediately and was brought to policy department for about 45 minutes (finger prints and some paper work), even though I explained that that was an accident- I thought my hu*****and was home and I was in a rush so I did not check myself.

I was released after that. But was asked to go to court next Monday.

My hu*****and left home at 3:30pm that day without telling anyone of us, nor did not even knock the doors.

Anyway, I am seeking help for:

1. What kind of charges may I get ?
2. Do I need a lawyer ?
3. What shall I bring to court next Monday ?

No words can express my current feeling. Appreciate for your help

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Omg, 都这样了,还不找律师哎?这铁该问法谈吧? -月半婆婆- 给 月半婆婆 发送悄悄话 月半婆婆 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 19:40:03

I posted there too but no reply yet -rellc- 给 rellc 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 19:44:27

星期天出的事,今天都星期二了,你做了啥?找得到律师事务所了嘛? -月半婆婆- 给 月半婆婆 发送悄悄话 月半婆婆 的博客首页 (24 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 19:48:20

Go to 法坛 ask 单身老猫 (see link inside) -老乐迷- 给 老乐迷 发送悄悄话 老乐迷 的博客首页 (37 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 19:44:08

Thanks I posted it there first -rellc- 给 rellc 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 19:45:53

当妈妈真不容易。支持一下。 -yppk- 给 yppk 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 19:47:37

你知道不知道你先生不在家?不知道他离开家了,是个理由。 -nishuone- 给 nishuone 发送悄悄话 nishuone 的博客首页 (93 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 19:55:40

抓紧找专业律师吧, 网上很少有人有这样的经历 -心晴天好- 给 心晴天好 发送悄悄话 心晴天好 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 19:59:04

同意,你也别太急了,好好准备上庭。 -Lily3- 给 Lily3 发送悄悄话 Lily3 的博客首页 (179 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 20:11:08

回复:在线求助!!! please--accidently leaving kid home -2boys_mom- 给 2boys_mom 发送悄悄话 (306 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 20:12:41

Please google "child negligence laws" -突破分球- 给 突破分球 发送悄悄话 (223 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 20:18:03

Thanks for the input. My #8 neighbor called the police -rellc- 给 rellc 发送悄悄话 (530 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 07:26:50

Child Abuse and Neglect in Connecticut -xchmm- 给 xchmm 发送悄悄话 (194 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 20:22:23

应该不会出现最糟的结果, 但你需要专业律师的帮助. 我的一个朋友有过类似 -lasha07- 给 lasha07 发送悄悄话 (533 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 20:52:59

警察怎么知道你把5岁小孩独自留家中?我认识的朋友中也有送大孩子去钢琴课然后马上回家照顾老二。 -swj2000- 给 swj2000 发送悄悄话 swj2000 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 21:27:32

马上找一个lawyer。 -niu9898- 给 niu9898 发送悄悄话 (233 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 21:28:43

如果真的是Felony charge -niu9898- 给 niu9898 发送悄悄话 (227 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 21:41:33

应该不会是Felony charge. 因为她是无心之失, 不像那些打孩子的, 当时就会被强制 -lasha07- 给 lasha07 发送悄悄话 (20 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 21:48:22

难说啊! -niu9898- 给 niu9898 发送悄悄话 (269 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 21:57:36

有道理! -突破分球- 给 突破分球 发送悄悄话 (57 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 22:06:53

如果真是felony,没有律师在法官是不会继续审的。 -千里一盏灯- 给 千里一盏灯 发送悄悄话 千里一盏灯 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 04:11:34

当事人太慌张了,被起诉什么,有没有律师自己都是知道的。 -20146- 给 20146 发送悄悄话 20146 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 06:36:00

很有道理!上法庭的准备事宜要慎之又慎。 -小睿儿- 给 小睿儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:37:34

奇怪! 警察怎么知道的, 而且还知道你的手机号码? -tgifriday- 给 tgifriday 发送悄悄话 tgifriday 的博客首页 (39 bytes) () 05/17/2011 postreply 21:41:15

也许,小孩在家里触发警报,保安公司给她打电话没接,就通知警察了 -千里一盏灯- 给 千里一盏灯 发送悄悄话 千里一盏灯 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 04:17:10

也许孩子没发现爸爸,害怕了。打电话的 -女球迷- 给 女球迷 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 06:04:57

别紧张,没什么事。在警察局如果有事会告诉你的,那个只是例行公事。 -20146- 给 20146 发送悄悄话 20146 的博客首页 (63 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 06:27:58

我看得头晕,你啥时单独留你老二在家了? -云中飞燕- 给 云中飞燕 发送悄悄话 云中飞燕 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 06:54:29

Thanks all for your inputs. I am trying to find a lawyer -rellc- 给 rellc 发送悄悄话 (254 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 07:28:56

10分钟的话应该没事 -听听意见- 给 听听意见 发送悄悄话 听听意见 的博客首页 (151 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 08:18:15

她这个已经有点麻烦了,看了她在法坛上贴的,似乎已经被起诉felony -云槎- 给 云槎 发送悄悄话 云槎 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 08:19:47

回复:她这个已经有点麻烦了,看了她在法坛上贴的,似乎已经被起诉felony -听听意见- 给 听听意见 发送悄悄话 听听意见 的博客首页 (111 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 08:35:08

Felony是重罪吧,只是留孩子在家一会儿怎么会这样呢?是不是邻居 -蓝冬- 给 蓝冬 发送悄悄话 蓝冬 的博客首页 (91 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 08:42:56

是,她丈夫3点30就离开了,离开的时候她在家,但她离开的时候她丈夫已经不在家 -云槎- 给 云槎 发送悄悄话 云槎 的博客首页 (138 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 08:47:10

如果仅仅是这一件事,不至于这么严重。 -蓝冬- 给 蓝冬 发送悄悄话 蓝冬 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 08:52:10

所以说我挺奇怪的,大家离开家的时候都不跟家人说再见的吗?咋会发生这种事儿。 -小睿儿- 给 小睿儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:38:50

他们两夫妻不住一间卧室,而且当时她和孩子们在午睡,这么解释也算合理 -云槎- 给 云槎 发送悄悄话 云槎 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:40:34

还是不习惯,像我们出门孩子前都要跟在家的那个父母说byebye,基本礼貌呀。如果留孩子在家给另一半,肯定 -小睿儿- 给 小睿儿 发送悄悄话 (69 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:45:20

看起来似乎那个妈妈和孩子一起午睡,睡着了,所以老公没吵醒他们自己走了? -云槎- 给 云槎 发送悄悄话 云槎 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 10:19:44

建议 -洲河- 给 洲河 发送悄悄话 洲河 的博客首页 (1585 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 08:54:04

我建议不要律师。 -洲河- 给 洲河 发送悄悄话 洲河 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 08:57:08

为什么?她自己有把握 deal felony charge? -蓝冬- 给 蓝冬 发送悄悄话 蓝冬 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 08:59:58

这种事情赚钱不多,不容易发现好律师,一般的律师自己就能胜任 -洲河- 给 洲河 发送悄悄话 洲河 的博客首页 (113 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:15:46

如果没有charge felony,自己上没问题,已经被charge felony,就需要律师了 -云槎- 给 云槎 发送悄悄话 云槎 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:24:58

请过律师后就知道了,都是些要钱的笨蛋!啥也干不好,这些细节她自己最清楚,完全能讲清楚 -洲河- 给 洲河 发送悄悄话 洲河 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:32:19

可以自己先到法院去咨询,上班时间去就行,专门有一个office,他们会帮你分析 -洲河- 给 洲河 发送悄悄话 洲河 的博客首页 (35 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:35:05

可以去有名的律师事务所找。我以前的一个移民律师就非常厉害,很多人佩服她。 -蓝冬- 给 蓝冬 发送悄悄话 蓝冬 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:36:44

我记得如果当事人没找律师,法庭会asign一个免费的律师?还是自己找个有经验的律师为好。 -蓝冬- 给 蓝冬 发送悄悄话 蓝冬 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:34:30

那得收入低于xx一下,非常低。 -洲河- 给 洲河 发送悄悄话 洲河 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:36:03

这个钱省不得!她在法坛上贴被起诉felony -小睿儿- 给 小睿儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:34:55

去上诉法庭咨询一下,自己再判断吧。我花过8000律师费,后来发现律师不如自己有用 -洲河- 给 洲河 发送悄悄话 洲河 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:38:15

你被起诉了felony吗? -小睿儿- 给 小睿儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:39:42

倒是没有,只是被威胁要起诉felony -洲河- 给 洲河 发送悄悄话 洲河 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:56:16

有些事情不用律师自己可以搞定,比如小额法庭、比如移民。有些事情一般当事人的法律常识就应付不了了 -小睿儿- 给 小睿儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:42:01

同意,为了孩子钱就别考虑了. 警察和社会工作者都来了, 可别败诉孩子让别人带走 -橄榄树1- 给 橄榄树1 发送悄悄话 橄榄树1 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:44:06

楼上的不要lawyer的建议千万别take。 -niu9898- 给 niu9898 发送悄悄话 (430 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:48:19

非常同意。一定要请有经验的律师。败诉的后果是遣返或坐牢,千万不能掉以轻心。 -蓝冬- 给 蓝冬 发送悄悄话 蓝冬 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:53:47

别忘了要把daddy也描画成loving,care的好父亲,证人或信,证明你们是好的父母 -洲河- 给 洲河 发送悄悄话 洲河 的博客首页 (204 bytes) () 05/18/2011 postreply 09:54:38

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