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Bulletin on Bullying

Keeping Kids Bully Free: Tips for Parents

1. If you think your child is being bullied, ask your child. Ask for specifics and write them down.

2. Believe your child.

3. Please DON’T:

A. Confront the bully or bully’s parents

B. Tell your child to “get in there and fight”

C. Blame your child

D. Promise to keep it a secret

4. Contact the teacher as soon as possible. You want the teacher to put a stop to the bullying, have consequences for bullying in place, help your child develop bully resistance and assertiveness skills, monitor your child’s safety, and keep you informed of actions taken and progress made.

5. Help your child to develop bully resistance skills.

6. Check with your child often about how things are going.

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• 很棒，毕竟是研究出来的，比版上各种建议都专业。 -卡莱- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:28:37

• Very well said. -Lily3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:31:48

• 听说真bully的告诉老师学校都不管用。这里没提的多交朋友没准是最有效的。 -毕小珠-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:32:43

• 得病首先吃药而不是去健身房。而且事情发生以后跟孩子说这个有blame victim的意思。 -卡莱- ♀ (126 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:38:29

• 我也没经验，就听说告老师是双面刃。。。 -毕小珠-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 09:59:29

• 还是看学校 -niu9898- ♂ (183 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:45:24

• 第五条最有趣，“ Help your child to develop bully resistance skills。”到底是 -Francine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:45:28

• 到底是啥skills，大家各显神通吧。 -Francine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:49:41

• co到底是啥skills，大家各显神通吧。关键的一点儿没说阿~~~ -包子脸- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:52:28

• 网上有，刚狗到的 -卡莱- ♀ (493 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:54:56

• 8错~~谢谢分享~~ -包子脸- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:57:31

• 这个还是不错的，不过只是对小娃小小娃起作用。 -Francine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:57:35

• 难怪我觉得不错~~~ -包子脸- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:58:23

• 对了，你是小同学。 -Francine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 09:03:01

• 大娃应该也有用吧，我昨天提到的克林顿年轻时被人bully，就是这样反应， -卡莱- ♀ (178 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 09:04:31

• 个人感觉 -empyrean8- ♀ (134 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:55:21

• 另外，到底啥算bully？打人肯定是了， -Francine- ♀ (69 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 09:02:27

• 天天扭着你说的肯定算：） -胡桃架子-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 09:04:24

• Pretend play at home. -blackmatter- ♀ (286 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 09:03:53

• 我们孩子学校也这么教过。 -Francine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 09:14:25

• 其实还是多交些朋友比较有用 -backyardfun- ♀ (73 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 09:03:37

• 没错！ -Francine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 09:07:48

• 朋友也不能天天跟着你啊，昨儿东北人的儿子上厕所遭遇bully，不能上厕所也让人护送 :) -卡莱- ♀ (29 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 09:16:54

• 75俺们人老眼花的!这么小的字,拼命放大还看不清 -MMXIAO- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:55:27

• --:) -niu9898- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2011 postreply 08:59:07