What do you think?Should I say something?

来源: Cielo 于 2010-11-28 21:01:21 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (1109 bytes)

Should I say something in this situation? Went out with two other families to play. Another kid also came. He is another friend's child but his parents didn't come. He's a year older than my son and grew up in China. He just came to America two years ago.  He was so bossy today and called my son stupid said other mean things. At the end he even said to my son,"your house is messy" I got really mad when I heard this. I tried really hard not to say things back to him since he's a child. But I am still upset until now and wish I had said something to him back then. I've been nice to his parents and even bought a really nice gift for his birthday. Other times I gave him rides while his dad left my son at home when it was his turn to drive him to a game.  His parents are kind of snobbish.  And we aren't too close.  Now I keep on maybe his parents were not saying good things about us at home to their kid.  My son is very smart but innocent. He's very kind.  I hate to see him being bullied like that.  What do you think? What would you do in this case? Thanks

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• 别跟小孩一般见识 -千里一盏灯- ♂ 给 千里一盏灯 发送悄悄话 千里一盏灯 的博客首页 (76 bytes) () 11/28/2010 postreply 21:10:32

• Thanks for your reply. I was quiet when -Cielo- ♀ 给 Cielo 发送悄悄话 Cielo 的博客首页 (237 bytes) () 11/28/2010 postreply 21:55:46

• 好象大人小孩都没教养，离远点，不需要对他们说什么。对自己孩子讲清楚就行了 -ctimeagain- ♀ 给 ctimeagain 发送悄悄话 ctimeagain 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/28/2010 postreply 21:24:21

• Thanks but was I giving him the wrong message for -Cielo- ♀ 给 Cielo 发送悄悄话 Cielo 的博客首页 (438 bytes) () 11/28/2010 postreply 21:58:40

• 在我们村的学校里 -木每- ♀ 给 木每 发送悄悄话 木每 的博客首页 (323 bytes) () 11/28/2010 postreply 21:42:22

• Kids from China are more complicated -Cielo- ♀ 给 Cielo 发送悄悄话 Cielo 的博客首页 (369 bytes) () 11/28/2010 postreply 22:01:58

• 我也奇怪，俺娃班上也有个中国来的男孩就这德性，可是在国内看到的孩子都还不错啊 -piggyp- ♀ 给 piggyp 发送悄悄话 piggyp 的博客首页 (179 bytes) () 11/28/2010 postreply 23:29:02

• 其实这跟父母的教育也很有关系.见到过好些个很mean的在这出生在这长的孩子. -sunflower9- ♀ 给 sunflower9 发送悄悄话 sunflower9 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/29/2010 postreply 06:27:23

• 对这种小孩我从来没好脾气。直接会说他。说话注意点。然后让我家女儿不要跟他玩。 -empyrean8- ♀ 给 empyrean8 发送悄悄话 empyrean8 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/29/2010 postreply 04:57:08

• 如果这种孩子的行为发生在我家,我就会同他妈妈说: -燕园- ♀ 给 燕园 发送悄悄话 (84 bytes) () 11/29/2010 postreply 08:28:42

• Thanks for sharing.I'll follow your advice -Cielo- ♀ 给 Cielo 发送悄悄话 Cielo 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/29/2010 postreply 23:32:56

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