以前住公寓,很拥挤,儿子有时make a lot of big noise,
I would tell them:'you are too loud, it hurts my ear, besides, our neighbors
won't like it."
一天,我冲儿子大声训斥,儿子过一会,看我气消了,说:”mommy, you are too loud,
our neighbors won't like it. Besides, it hurts my feeling."
儿子批评的有道理,我赶紧向儿子认错。
以后,也得小心,管者自己的嘴巴,因为乱发脾气是要认错的。
我意识到孩子们在这个社会,需要学会为自己争取权利,you have to fight for your rights,sometimes.
You have to let your voice be heard. 做个对父母上司言听必从的人,在中国,过去,是个模范公民,在
美国行不同。
不要我的孩子做乖乖宝
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I give them a warning,
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回复:I give them a warning,
-NDMom-
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同意一半,have your voice heard 后,还是要求同存异照领导说的办。
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12/23/2005 postreply
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