It is not fair to your kids

I am from a very humble family from Mainland China. However, I don’t want my kids to have that humble life. It is not fair to your kids that you make your kids too humble if you are not that poor. I don’t believe it is good for kids’ mentality and social skills, either. I know some of my Chinese American friends who have pretty large and luxury houses, but their living standard and the style is so awkward. I don’t believe that they just want to save some money for the future. To me, it is one kind of mentalities and way of life, which I don’t like at all.