what should I do? crying for help...

本帖于 2005-11-22 20:48:02 时间, 由普通用户 edumom 编辑

Just notice that my 10 year old daughter likes a boy her age also in her school but in different class.
She likes to play with him in church activities ( we are in same church). On Sunday morning, she couldn't wait to go to Bible study class which they are in the same class.
She told me about two years ago that she likes him. Now she says she doesn't.(I don't think she want to admit it. I just pretend I don't pay much attention to it)
I want to stop sending her to Bible study group very week. Let her go very 2 or 3 weeks. Then she won't see this boy often, since they are not in the same class at school, let her cool down a little bit.
I'm not sure if I do the right thing , or what should I do. Need you guy's advice. Thanks,

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才十岁,用不着吧.......我也没有经验,就是感觉 -mimimi- 给 mimimi 发送悄悄话 mimimi 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 10:52:17

先跟女儿深谈一次, 然后帮女儿换个church -谦虚谨慎- 给 谦虚谨慎 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 10:53:40

你为什么要干这事儿? -逆水寒- 给 逆水寒 发送悄悄话 逆水寒 的博客首页 (26 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 10:57:23

没经验也乱说 -柔板- 给 柔板 发送悄悄话 (161 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 10:57:27

一般来说十岁孩子的感情世界应该是很纯的 -亮亮妈妈- 给 亮亮妈妈 发送悄悄话 亮亮妈妈 的博客首页 (149 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 10:58:46

Don't cry. There is nothing wrong -水儿~- 给 水儿~ 发送悄悄话 (294 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:00:22

agree~ -老梅子- 给 老梅子 发送悄悄话 (92 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:09:06

我儿子的那个很严重,5岁定的娃娃亲,7岁女孩去加州 -水儿~- 给 水儿~ 发送悄悄话 (19 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:14:36

哈~老实交待你从几岁开始的?? -月半婆婆- 给 月半婆婆 发送悄悄话 月半婆婆 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:14:55

agree. I think I'm over reacting -123Mom- 给 123Mom 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 13:54:01

When my daughter was 10, she told me she had a crush on this cut -panyca- 给 panyca 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:00:26

回复:When my daughter was 10, she told me she had a crush on th -panyca- 给 panyca 发送悄悄话 (291 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:02:39

ha, Mine announced in the class that -水儿~- 给 水儿~ 发送悄悄话 (100 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:02:54

What's wrong with that? -Huqi- 给 Huqi 发送悄悄话 (465 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:01:06

回复:What's wrong with that? -panyca- 给 panyca 发送悄悄话 (120 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:04:11

没看懂, 不好吗这样? -xxxxxxxxxx- 给 xxxxxxxxxx 发送悄悄话 xxxxxxxxxx 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:02:58

我也没看懂, 我觉得这样很好 -emom- 给 emom 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:14:07

时间会改变一切 -study- 给 study 发送悄悄话 (94 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:05:10

首先应该祝贺你,你女儿很正常啊。稀饭男孩子~~其次, -月半婆婆- 给 月半婆婆 发送悄悄话 月半婆婆 的博客首页 (439 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:07:20

我想女儿16时,我就该把眼瞪大了哈 -水儿~- 给 水儿~ 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:08:51

就怕眼瞪大了也没用,这种事操不上心~ -老梅子- 给 老梅子 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:11:25

我是要过滤 -水儿~- 给 水儿~ 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:15:08

你女儿要是知道你睁着大眼睛了,她一定反这做,这可是反叛的年龄啊 -月半婆婆- 给 月半婆婆 发送悄悄话 月半婆婆 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:13:33

不用这样紧张吧? -家有美珍珠- 给 家有美珍珠 发送悄悄话 (174 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:10:38

找一本关于少年的心理学的书来看看,可能会有帮助的 -家有美珍珠- 给 家有美珍珠 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:12:12

是不是被最近的新闻吓到了? -NDMom- 给 NDMom 发送悄悄话 (237 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:18:50

好几年前看过一本书,书名忘了(粗心:() -家有美珍珠- 给 家有美珍珠 发送悄悄话 (108 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:24:44

传承的生命? -NDMom- 给 NDMom 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:45:25

是的!亲爱的.谢谢~~~ -家有美珍珠- 给 家有美珍珠 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 12:01:48

哈!作者也想起来了,是林曾秀芬 -家有美珍珠- 给 家有美珍珠 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 12:21:17

Thanks. I'll read these books. -123Mom- 给 123Mom 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 13:50:56

回复:what should I do? crying for help... -65150- 给 65150 发送悄悄话 (76 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:23:02

Are you sure about this? -study- 给 study 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:24:12

我也觉得她女儿根本不懂这些,要是懂这些就不是这样了。 -水儿~- 给 水儿~ 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:27:36

她喜欢男孩你哭什么,又不是女孩。 -7281- 给 7281 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:37:06

早恋不是洪水猛兽,有点走题... -笑傲江湖之懒美人- 给 笑傲江湖之懒美人 发送悄悄话 (334 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 11:49:59

我十岁的儿子喜欢一个女孩 -liliah- 给 liliah 发送悄悄话 (375 bytes) () 11/22/2005 postreply 14:10:51

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