此帖是對感到當中國人吃虧，不喜歡中國文化的部分網友而說。
"中國文化來去自由"，真的如此。我以前都没有看得那么清楚：
一來，中國文化有宗教而無宗教負擔。二來，中國文化没有種族要求。"華夷之辨"，接受文化即算華夏。那么反過來，放棄文化即出華夏了。
基於上述两點，中國文化大多時候不會跟别的傳統、宗教抵触或矛盾。就是說，它對加入别的文化造成的精神層面的障碍很少。
對比例如今天觸目驚心的巴以衝突之中宗教和種族的因素，中國文化的自由寬容尤見其可貴。
Eckhart Tolle 説: Resistance serves no purpose.
那麽，具體到我们的論题, I think:
Try not to resist Chinese culture first. The more you try to expel it, the more it sticks around in your head. Give up the resistance, instead, focus on exercising and practicing the desired culture. Eventually you will be free from the command of Chinese culture. Not that it will disappear from you, but that it won't interfere anymore. It is like, you can achieve native fluency in English without being interfered by the existing Chinese language in your consciousness. Eventually English will become the operational one that serves your life. In a similar manner, Chinese culture will subside and make room for the master culture. And like I just said, Chinese culture is particularly good at not creating contradictions to other cultures.
以上完全是誠意的。吾觀世間之法已改。與其無義抵触，勉强他人，莫若成人之美。
