Yes it is nice to have a place you can hide

and escape from all the problems in real life from time to time, especially when you are tired from relentless pressure of daily life or feel you are beaten by all the challenges. But once you are recharged, you should start to believe in yourself again :)

I don't believe in "live happily ever after" either, but I do think we can control our own destiny to some degree. No one can live forever and force others to love us, and I can't be a supermodel or Olympic Maranon runner. Still, we can define who we want to be, what kind of life we want to have. It is awfully hard to change others, but we can always change ourselves to be the change we want see in the world.