无主席说的是自爱。自爱是最聪明的人的做法。人必须先爱自己,才有能力去爱别人。但有自爱能力的人并不多,确实需要智慧。
自恋的定义和症状:
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662
本人读过不少网络贴包括英文网站。看到自恋不多但还是有。有的人放近照,P图P的自己都不认识他/她自己了, 到最后“自己爱上自己了”, 呵呵。我真心认为这是一种病态。
自爱和自恋的区别(来自网路)
Here are some key differences between the love of self and narcissism:
Self-love exudes confidence,
narcissism exudes charm.
Self-love feels inherently worthy,
narcissism requires constant external validation.
Self-loves shows empathy,
narcissism shows apathy.
Self-love requires self-reflection,
narcissism requires mirrors and selfies.
Self-love faces fears,
narcissism is fear-based.
Self-love is compassionate,
narcissism is arrogant.