是不是该放弃呢？

谢谢之前版主及各位xdjm的关心。我现在已经回到了自己的所在地。昨天晚上给她发了个邮件，一是告诉她我平安到达，二是感谢她的盛情款待。我说过我这个人没什么复杂的情感经历，想事情有时候也过于简单，所以没能把握好机会。下面的一段话是她的回信，我想听听你们的意见（不知道这样做是否妥当，我在心里先说声报歉了）：It is not because of some words you said or something you have been done. You have been yourself and you did well. However, I did not find myself attracted to you as an individual. After meeting you in person, I found you are not a person that I would spend the rest of my life with. Please do not take this personal. It has nothing to reflect on your characteristic. I prefer not to develop a relationship with you; but to remain available, looking for my other half. As a mature woman, I am very clear what I want and what I don't.

I appreciate your attention. But I ask you to respect my wish.我说过我不是一个死缠烂打的人，尽管我很喜欢她。我现在在犹豫该怎么办。过阶段她会有个毕业典礼，我不知道是不是应该去参加。

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• Time to move on -3OK- ♀ (242 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 08:12:55

• thanks a lot, i totally understand. i am a simple guy, not -tradertobe- ♂ (136 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 09:14:43

• 回复：thanks a lot, i totally understand. i am a simple guy, not -3OK- ♀ (227 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 10:15:33

• 男人一定要自信， -AnaZhang- ♀ (48 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 08:14:58

• honestly i am a confident guy, however, this is a long-distance -TraderToBe- ♂ (166 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 09:22:29

• 人家对你不感兴趣，那就算了。。。免得以后红杏出墙。。。 -烛龙- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 08:22:27

• 嗯，做普通朋友吧，我觉得可能是你的猛烈追求吓到她了 -小地雷- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 08:32:17

• 其实之前我也表现的比较strong，她并没有太介意，只是 -TraderToBe- ♂ (168 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 09:31:58

• 没关系，别灰心，追MM是个技术活儿，需要经验的积累，多试几次就好了 -小地雷- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 09:52:04

• 我是个生人，路过这里，看到你的帖，说几句。这个女孩 -nianlian- ♀ (174 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 08:39:31

• thanks for your opinion! that is my understanding too. -TraderToBe- ♂ (27 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 09:17:54

• 已经很明确了 你已经和她没戏了 人家没感觉 -正在痊愈的鸡眼- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 11:33:04

• 已经说的这么明白了，忘了她吧 -lavendar~- ♀ (40 bytes) () 07/07/2009 postreply 11:50:32

• 靠,被灭门了啊!!! 为你默哀!! -咸着的北京人- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/08/2009 postreply 14:42:33