是不是该放弃呢？

谢谢之前版主及各位xdjm的关心。我现在已经回到了自己的所在地。昨天晚上给她发了个邮件，一是告诉她我平安到达，二是感谢她的盛情款待。我说过我这个人没什么复杂的情感经历，想事情有时候也过于简单，所以没能把握好机会。下面的一段话是她的回信，我想听听你们的意见（不知道这样做是否妥当，我在心里先说声报歉了）：It is not because of some words you said or something you have been done. You have been yourself and you did well. However, I did not find myself attracted to you as an individual. After meeting you in person, I found you are not a person that I would spend the rest of my life with. Please do not take this personal. It has nothing to reflect on your characteristic. I prefer not to develop a relationship with you; but to remain available, looking for my other half. As a mature woman, I am very clear what I want and what I don't.

I appreciate your attention. But I ask you to respect my wish.我说过我不是一个死缠烂打的人，尽管我很喜欢她。我现在在犹豫该怎么办。过阶段她会有个毕业典礼，我不知道是不是应该去参加。