read this book, it may help you

本帖于 2010-09-28 08:04:20 时间, 由超管 论坛管理 编辑

http://www.amazon.com/Hes-Scared-Shes-Understanding-Relationships/dp/0440506255/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1238629299&sr=8-1

Not sure it's your case, but it could possibly be.

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