read this book, it may help you

来源: 于 2009-04-01 16:42:43 [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读：次

http://www.amazon.com/Hes-Scared-Shes-Understanding-Relationships/dp/0440506255/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1238629299&sr=8-1

Not sure it's your case, but it could possibly be.