It is really a general rule to stay clear of those, son of widow

They don't typically have a healthy, normal mother-son relationship. 跟有心理健康有问题（那种成长过程中带来的心理不健康）ｏｒ亲情关系不健康有畸形的人建立亲密关系是很可怕的，会把自己的ｌｉｆｅ也screw up. 找到的不会是幸福。