I don't believe 孝顺父母 is men's holy duty.

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I don't believe 孝顺父母 is men's holy duty. It is between men or women and their elders. You do what you can do, or want to do.

What if a Child left his/her parent to die alone and miserably. Too bad, why not do a better parenting job when you still can.

Sorry, just my thoughts.

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• "You do what you can do" is one type of 孝顺父母. -Teaparty- ♀ 给 Teaparty 发送悄悄话 (110 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:27:43

• Why make a big deal out of it? Even cite ancient books. -用户名被占用了- ♂ 给 用户名被占用了 发送悄悄话 用户名被占用了 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:29:42

• For me, 孝顺父母 is not a big deal. 不孝顺父母 is a big deal. -Teaparty- ♀ 给 Teaparty 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:32:56

• how to 孝顺父母 when you are abroad? give $$$ ? -用户名被占用了- ♂ 给 用户名被占用了 发送悄悄话 用户名被占用了 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:35:24

• That's cheap :-D -用户名被占用了- ♂ 给 用户名被占用了 发送悄悄话 用户名被占用了 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:40:09

• most of time, parents don't need the kid's money. -Teaparty- ♀ 给 Teaparty 发送悄悄话 (162 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 10:00:28

• That is ALL? anything else? -用户名被占用了- ♂ 给 用户名被占用了 发送悄悄话 用户名被占用了 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 10:01:20

• see, this option is pretty easy. -Teaparty- ♀ 给 Teaparty 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 10:04:46

• Yes, if they need $$$ to have a decent life. -Teaparty- ♀ 给 Teaparty 发送悄悄话 (124 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:44:51

• 孝顺 = $$$ + some phone calls + year-end gifts. -用户名被占用了- ♂ 给 用户名被占用了 发送悄悄话 用户名被占用了 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:47:44

• 孝顺父母是每个人的职责。 -耳背- ♂ 给 耳背 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:57:43

• I would say it is an option. -用户名被占用了- ♂ 给 用户名被占用了 发送悄悄话 用户名被占用了 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:59:14

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