"You do what you can do" is one type of 孝顺父母.

孝顺父母 is not a holy duty. It is part of your life. You can take it out of your life. It is personal choice.

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• Why make a big deal out of it? Even cite ancient books. -用户名被占用了- ♂ (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:29:42

• For me, 孝顺父母 is not a big deal. 不孝顺父母 is a big deal. -Teaparty- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:32:56

• how to 孝顺父母 when you are abroad? give $$$ ? -用户名被占用了- ♂ (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:35:24

• That's cheap :-D -用户名被占用了- ♂ (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:40:09

• most of time, parents don't need the kid's money. -Teaparty- ♀ (162 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 10:00:28

• That is ALL? anything else? -用户名被占用了- ♂ (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 10:01:20

• see, this option is pretty easy. -Teaparty- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 10:04:46

• Yes, if they need $$$ to have a decent life. -Teaparty- ♀ (124 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:44:51

• 孝顺 = $$$ + some phone calls + year-end gifts. -用户名被占用了- ♂ (0 bytes) () 05/27/2009 postreply 09:47:44