hiding

when i was a high school student, i ran away. when i was working in China, i tried my best to work in another city. now i am in my 40's, i tried to spend more time out side the house. When i finished work, i went to supermarket to walk till 6pm or 7am, then i went home. everyone told me that the old people can not change any more, and we young people shall change. my cusin in china told me that they found it hard to get along with the elders. but at least they are in the same country, same background. we have been immigrated for long time, very different background. USA is very beautiful, but the china elderlies could not get use to to the new things.