I am very sorry to hear your story.

Here are some of my thoughts:

first, knowing what having such a father is doing to you, I think you are aware of it to a degree, but you need to find out what you need to do to reverse his influence. Do everything you can, so your misfortune is not repeated in your children;

second, protect yourself, your mother, your brother from further harm; In my opinion, he is still taking advantage of your mom.

third, which is very hard, forgive him, let go of the hatred, so you have peace in your heart. Maybe one day he will come to his senses.

Best wishes.

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• 好 -无银- ♀ (22 bytes) () 03/28/2009 postreply 15:35:45

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