want to adopt a child from China to the US, please advice

I am considering adopting a child in China. I have myown son at age of 5. Now my question is:

1. Is it better to adopt a son or a daughter for my family and for my son?
2. What age is the best for adopted child?
3. How to adopt a child from China? I want the child to be healthy, no any defects, as the minimum requirement. Further, try hard to get one smarter and more beautiful.

Please advice. Thanks a lot.

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回复:want to adopt a child from China to the US, please advice -單身老貓- 给 單身老貓 发送悄悄话 單身老貓 的博客首页 (53 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 10:47:21

thanks a lot -相见不如不相见- 给 相见不如不相见 发送悄悄话 相见不如不相见 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 11:27:38

回复:want to adopt a child from China to the US, please advice -千里孤坟- 给 千里孤坟 发送悄悄话 (700 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 12:15:41

你还没看她在其他坛子问adopt以后能不能退货呢~~ -小小巧克力豆- 给 小小巧克力豆 发送悄悄话 小小巧克力豆 的博客首页 (32 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 12:44:59

对,用的还是return “it“!还说如果一岁左右领养太小,too much work... -shengY- 给 shengY 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 14:33:09

的确令人发指 -不好回答的问题- 给 不好回答的问题 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2009 postreply 12:58:08

Well said. Her heart is not big enough to adopt. -totem- 给 totem 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 19:03:29

回复:回复:want to adopt a child from China to the US, please advice -千里孤坟- 给 千里孤坟 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2009 postreply 07:08:17

if you can't love a kid unconditionally, you are not ready to -如尘- 给 如尘 发送悄悄话 (84 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 12:45:30

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