贴错地方了吧？

那儿跟哪儿啊？ 不是每个州都有有关 gay marriage 的 ballot measure. 在说了，人家结婚干这你什么事儿了？ 说道底，同性婚姻，即便是婚姻，拥有的权益比起一般婚姻还是差了很多。 所有的 federal law 都不承认这种婚姻关系。 好比说他们不能 file income tax return as a married couple, which has the lowest tax bracket among all possibilities. these are the rights you enjoyed for many many years and you probably take it for granted. why do you think you are so special that you deserve the privileges?

同性恋要争取自己的权益是早晚的事情。 it is in accordance with the fundamental fairness of the law. and you have a better chance to be protected in a society that protects the weak and the minority.