devorce and 401K

Cannot avoid devorce. One problem is although we have a joint banking account, we do not have much savings. However, since he's been an employee many years, he has saved quite amount 401K. I am wondering if his 401K is his own private propery? I am not that greedy, but after devorce, I need pay the house mortagage and raise the kids all by myself. Although I have a job, it is pretty hard for me.

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从你们这些离婚的女人中,我看到了人性和(婚前)誓言 -3636- 给 3636 发送悄悄话 3636 的博客首页 (54 bytes) () 07/27/2008 postreply 21:25:28

有些男性不懂结婚的定义把结婚和同居看成一样的了。 -motheroffour- 给 motheroffour 发送悄悄话 motheroffour 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/27/2008 postreply 22:19:29

结婚是要很小心想清楚的 -motheroffour- 给 motheroffour 发送悄悄话 motheroffour 的博客首页 (30 bytes) () 07/27/2008 postreply 22:32:16

401k 是养老金, 不是养小金 -3DMan- 给 3DMan 发送悄悄话 (133 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 07:28:33

回复:从你们这些离婚的女人中,我看到了人性和(婚前)誓言 -wxced- 给 wxced 发送悄悄话 (178 bytes) () 07/27/2008 postreply 22:33:56

回复:devorce and 401K -N.- 给 N. 发送悄悄话 (145 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 00:08:56

Everything is fair game during divorce. Make sure you get a goo -lanyin1- 给 lanyin1 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 08:05:17

Ethics Vs Law -casinoeye- 给 casinoeye 发送悄悄话 casinoeye 的博客首页 (641 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 10:48:24

i barely come to this forum. however, whenever -3636- 给 3636 发送悄悄话 3636 的博客首页 (230 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 13:25:00

Have you thought about how woman will retire? -Comfort.- 给 Comfort. 发送悄悄话 Comfort. 的博客首页 (270 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 13:46:54

Only you think this way -casinoeye- 给 casinoeye 发送悄悄话 casinoeye 的博客首页 (185 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 14:05:46

That is how you think. -Comfort.- 给 Comfort. 发送悄悄话 Comfort. 的博客首页 (437 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 14:18:46

The wife deserves some of the 401K, just how much, 5:5 or 4:6 -eyehalfopen- 给 eyehalfopen 发送悄悄话 eyehalfopen 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 15:00:23

30/70 the best -casinoeye- 给 casinoeye 发送悄悄话 casinoeye 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 17:08:25

have he bought an IRA for her ? -jin_yin_hua- 给 jin_yin_hua 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 15:20:18

离婚都是不得已,为孩子要争取最大利益 -mochouhu- 给 mochouhu 发送悄悄话 (90 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 14:34:36

should you sale the house and 50/50 ? -jin_yin_hua- 给 jin_yin_hua 发送悄悄话 (64 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 15:23:45

it depends. -胡桃架子- 给 胡桃架子 发送悄悄话 胡桃架子 的博客首页 (530 bytes) () 07/28/2008 postreply 23:33:39

legally you are entitled to 50% of his 401K if -zzcpitt- 给 zzcpitt 发送悄悄话 (385 bytes) () 07/29/2008 postreply 16:26:56

and he is entitle 50% of yours too. -temptemp- 给 temptemp 发送悄悄话 (102 bytes) () 07/29/2008 postreply 18:22:46

401K 的钱离婚时要分割的。 -2416- 给 2416 发送悄悄话 (183 bytes) () 07/29/2008 postreply 21:38:45

觉得你没真正结果婚! -粤太- 给 粤太 发送悄悄话 (126 bytes) () 08/12/2008 postreply 20:26:11

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