Try to find a job. (Or go to school to prepare to get a job.)

And do not have kids until you know your hu*****and better.

If you are in a community state, it does not matter if your name is on the title. Is he the one sign the loan document? Your name is not on the loan document, right?

I know some good hu*****ands like to have the financial control too. This does not necessarily make them bad/untrustworthy hu*****ands.

To be honest with you, if you just get married, whatever you guys own together now was really your hu*****and's property. Of course, your savings in China should be yours. If it is a large amount of money, you can ask to send it to your parents and saved under your name.

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• BTW, without trust, marriage life can be hard. -N.- ♀ (120 bytes) () 10/20/2007 postreply 00:57:29

• 同意。没事一个人在家久了，就会瞎琢磨的。 -needwait..- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/20/2007 postreply 05:09:48

• H4 不可以工作的吧 -女球迷- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/20/2007 postreply 21:35:42