老貓 help. thanks

Married for 10 years and has a 2-year old. Ex-wife had an affair with her co-worker when baby was only a few month old or much earlier and still has the relationship now. She had another affair a few years ago. We got green card before she filed for divorce. You might ask why I ever wanted the child. The baby was not planned.

Will go to trial soon to fight for primary residence of the baby, which is the best I could do, according to my lawyer. She also wants alimony. I was advised in the past not to do more to cause her lose her job, after I went to her employer for the affair. Otherwise I have to support her. But I also know that she does want to have her job now, to be able to claim the baby.

My question is, if she loses her job before the trial not for any reason of mine, would that make it favor me in the battle of the baby? If she loses her job after the trial and divorce, how would that affect it?

It's ok if it is too complicated for you to answer. Thanks. God bless.

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• First of all, which state? -selfselfself- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/09/2007 postreply 13:02:32

• 回复：First of all, which state? -coolfan- ♂ (11 bytes) () 06/09/2007 postreply 17:43:29

• Not try to be mean, but, -N.- ♀ (31 bytes) () 06/09/2007 postreply 23:52:27

• good question -wxc2008- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2007 postreply 12:52:10

• 回复：Not try to be mean, but, -wxc2008- ♀ (65 bytes) () 06/10/2007 postreply 12:59:00