Is this call domestic violence

My parents got green card, and live with us. They fight very often, my dad can find any excuse to fight with my mom. Sometimes he say somethings that's beyond anything you can imagine....... Sometimes he went to kitchen and take the knife, threaten. He also pushed my mom to sofa, cover her head wit blanket. And he is trying to control our life, make everyone in the family live with high pressure. He wanted to interfere with our daily life, try to make everything difficult for us to do. We have do daughters ( younger than 10), I really don't want the kids to hear this. But I also don't want to send my parents back to China, since I am reall afriad he will harm my mom. What should I do? I told my mom, if he ever do this again, she should ru of of the house and scream for help. I think people will call 911. Yeh, I maybe able to call 911 myself, but they are my parents, it's hard to imagine that I did this. So if someone called 911, will police take him away and send him back to China? That will be ideal for us. What will the police do to my daughters? Will they be sent to foster home? Since this is really not our problem, it's my dad's problem, but he lives with us. Thanks for any advice

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I think if you call police, he will be sent to China -xxhhwxc- 给 xxhhwxc 发送悄悄话 (57 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 06:07:01

回复:I think if you call police, he will be sent to China -yayo- 给 yayo 发送悄悄话 (456 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 07:36:59

俺觉得,你爸有绿卡,应该不会因家庭暴力被递解出境。 -如尘- 给 如尘 发送悄悄话 (109 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 07:59:33

But using knife to threaten others is a serious matter -xxhhwxc- 给 xxhhwxc 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 09:55:57

回复:Is this call domestic violence -pppppppp- 给 pppppppp 发送悄悄话 (100 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 08:02:44

回复:回复:Is this call domestic violence -yayo- 给 yayo 发送悄悄话 (796 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 09:36:08

当家事变成这样的话,你就只有靠法律了,还好美国是个法制的国家. -知福惜福- 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (53 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 09:54:10

让我们分析一下如果打了911,会发生什么。首先警察会赶到 -xiaobaitu- 给 xiaobaitu 发送悄悄话 xiaobaitu 的博客首页 (602 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 10:08:28

回复:让我们分析一下如果打了911,会发生什么。首先警察会赶到 -experience- 给 experience 发送悄悄话 (313 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 10:26:56

回复:回复:让我们分析一下如果打了911,会发生什么。首先警察会赶 -yayo- 给 yayo 发送悄悄话 (78 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 11:07:37

再看了一遍你的帖子,觉得你爸爸精神是不是不太正常啊? -xxhhwxc- 给 xxhhwxc 发送悄悄话 (74 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 10:09:42

回复:再看了一遍你的帖子,觉得你爸爸精神是不是不太正常啊? -yayo- 给 yayo 发送悄悄话 (517 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 11:11:02

晓以大义 -千年老妖- 给 千年老妖 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 11:56:17

"xiao(3) yi(3) da(4) yi(4)" may make things worse in the future -笨企鹅- 给 笨企鹅 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 17:46:28

你爸着实的可恶。你不如就去法院申请个禁止令让他自己住得了。 -如尘- 给 如尘 发送悄悄话 (66 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 11:21:47

回复:Is this call domestic violence -yayo- 给 yayo 发送悄悄话 (128 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 12:23:43

The problem is yours, not your daddy's! -wjsw- 给 wjsw 发送悄悄话 (1089 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 13:29:32

回复:The problem is yours, not your daddy's! -yayo- 给 yayo 发送悄悄话 (1134 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 16:31:05

你爸是“知己知彼,百战不殆”,知道你和你妈好欺负。 -如尘- 给 如尘 发送悄悄话 (63 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 16:42:42

Completely agree with you! -wjsw- 给 wjsw 发送悄悄话 (146 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 18:36:56

找个心理医生帮助他,美国有很多治精神方面的药物。 -Don'tGo- 给 Don'tGo 发送悄悄话 (50 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 10:07:31

很多白人女孩子动不动就吃治疗心理的药 -don'tgo- 给 don'tgo 发送悄悄话 (228 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 10:18:51

He may be in personality disorder -freecall- 给 freecall 发送悄悄话 (626 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 14:45:22

回复:He may be in personality disorder -yayo- 给 yayo 发送悄悄话 (450 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 15:47:41

Yes, all you said about him here -freecall- 给 freecall 发送悄悄话 (414 bytes) () 11/21/2006 postreply 08:14:49

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