谢谢大家对我的热心回贴。这些天忙于找律师,查资料,没给大家及时回贴,请原谅。星期一下午收到CHILDREN‘S AID 送交法院的文件副本,看后知道在我背后发生的事情,醒悟到原来是楼下的黑女人邻居利用CHILDREN’S AID 把我小孩带走,为了她的极度安静。她从未与我提过小孩吵,但已经用过好几种办法想让我们搬走,我也已和气与明白地告诉过她,以我目前的状况,很难再搬家。她最后利用CHILDREN’S AID,真是为达目的,不择手段,真是地头蛇。
我一直繁忙,没有什么法律知识,请了律师,但因财力实在有限,不能指望律师花很多时间,自己还要做一部分工作。我把那天晚上的详细情况写出来了,因考虑可能要到法庭讲,我用英文写的,现贴出来肯请大家帮我出主意。在此时期希望能得到大家的热心帮助。
The details of how my six years old son was removed from my home. Is it legally?
We moved in a big townhouse nine months ago for a lower rent. A black single woman lives downstairs. She is not the landlady. She said she has a teenage son but does not live with her. My son is hyperactive and bad lessening so making some noise sometimes. The black woman has been pushing me to move out of the townhouse for quite a few months. She has tried in many ways. She said the apartment was too small for my son and I and pushed me to look for another apartment for many times. During the summer, she said it was very hot and pushed me to install the air conditioner. I told her I liked fresh air and there were only a few hot days in the summer. And I also told her clearly that I was a widow with a little boy so I had a very hard time to move. I saw her looked angry every time when I did not follow her push but I never thought she would use police and Children’s Aid to reach her goal—removing my son from townhouse. The black woman told me she used to work for protecting some key people and I could tell she was professional for that from all she did in that night.
We live in the neighborhood where is a special relationship between the police in 52 station and old residents. There is KIDS N’ COPS GROUP in the neighborhood and police officers come here every month.
In the evening of Tuesday, October 10, 2006, MP in my area had a forum and I had to go there for the Survivor Benefit issue and my son had to go with me due to none looked after him except me. After the forum, we arrived home after 8:30. After my cooking and my son's diner, it was after 9:30 already. My son had not done his homework yet and I asked him to finish it ASAP. My son did not listen to me and it was very much later than my son’s regular bedtime. After a certain time of argument, being concerned my son’s school tomorrow caused my high stress. I wrongly spanked him on the left top of his back. My son was naked at that time(he took off the clothes by himself) so that a four-finger-print mark was left. It was first time I spanked my son so that I became very dull and upset. My son was crying and the black woman and her next-door-neighbor knocked my door. I opened the door and said sorry to them. The black woman’s neighbor told me she was a social worker(without telling her name and showing her any credence) and asked if they could come into my home. Considered they were neighbors downstairs, I agreed. The black woman rushed to my son and checked his body as soon as she entered my home. Then she gave her neighbor a meaningful glance. Her neighbor told me they wanted to talk to my son without me and asked me to go to another room. I was so dull so that I went to the bedroom. After they asked my son and they consulted with each other, they called me back and told me they would like to take my son downstairs and let both my son and I have a relax then the black woman carried my son and rush downstairs even if without my permit. I was really dull at that time and I felt regret for what I did. After a few minutes, I phoned the black and asked her if I could go downstairs to pick up my son or she could send my son back to me. She asked my phone number and told me she would call me back in a few minutes. After around 10 minutes, I got a phone call from the Children Aid and told some people would come to my place and let my son to be the black woman’s place. I told Children’s Aid stuff my son needed to go to school tomorrow and Children’s Aid stuff cheated me by telling me the black neighbor would send my son to school tomorrow. Around 1:am. The police who the black neighbor has known for years came to my place and took me to the police station. The police did not show me any warrant.
After six days of my son was removed from my home, I received a copy of the application which the Children Aid sent to the court and a agreement form which they ask me to choose agree/disagree to let my son live in a foster family(a black woman with three her own children and a unknown male) for six months as it will provide the time for me to learn appropriate courses. I am going to choose disagree for sure.
Also in the application, they state the facts upon which the applicant is relying in the application. After I read it, I realized the black neighbor used Children Aid and police to reach her goal – let my son be out of the townhouse so that she can have a all-time quite environment. The statement says the black neighbor came to my place alone and carried out my son alone. The statement does not mention the white neighbor at all. I guess the white neighbor has asked the black neighbor not mention her to Children Aid and police. The statement also says two days after my son was sent to Children Aid, the black neighbor contacted Children Aid again wanting to speak with the assigned worker to my son. After she got my son’s social worker, she told her that I was having financial difficulty and was not receiving any assistance from Housing with regard to rent and I was trying to get subsidized housing.
My son’s social worker told me (I guess she told the black neighbor too) she could give me a subsidized apartment.
Are what the neighbors did in that night against the law?
我孩子如何被邻居从家中骗走的详情,恳请大家帮助
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我无法从法律角度帮你,但是感觉你最好不要
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10/19/2006 postreply
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回复:我无法从法律角度帮你,但是感觉你最好不要
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10/19/2006 postreply
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回复:回复:我无法从法律角度帮你,但是感觉你最好不要
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10/19/2006 postreply
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谢谢。我也忧虑会节外生枝,请大家各抒已见
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10/19/2006 postreply
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I don't think she even needs to mention the color
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10/20/2006 postreply
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同情你
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10/19/2006 postreply
23:17:03
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同情你too. but
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10/19/2006 postreply
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Could not help you with legal questions, but,
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10/19/2006 postreply
23:38:10
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感谢您们的宝贵意见,我已照此修改了稿件。
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10/20/2006 postreply
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I don't think this is the time to save money
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10/20/2006 postreply
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夜已深,尽量改一改,应该比原文好些。切记:诚实,诚恳,客观。
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10/20/2006 postreply
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回复:我孩子如何被邻居从家中骗走的详情,恳请大家帮助
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10/20/2006 postreply
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谢谢帮助。特别是谢谢楚汉,帮我写的漂亮文章。今天在门前碰到楼下的
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10/20/2006 postreply
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请律师吧 并附上自己养类似孩子的心得体会
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10/20/2006 postreply
20:09:39
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这种情况什么都是次要的, 把孩子带回身边最最要紧, 否则一辈子都后悔
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10/21/2006 postreply
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个人的一点意见。
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10/21/2006 postreply
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回复:个人的一点意见。
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10/22/2006 postreply
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建议你请律师,说实话,你写的这篇文章没有任何说服力
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10/22/2006 postreply
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同情你. 希望你的处境尽快好起来.
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10/23/2006 postreply
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不要太伤心!
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10/27/2006 postreply
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