我教你几招吧

If you decided to dump your husnad anyway, I guess qwqw68 already tell you what to do -- primarily use a lawyer to torture your hu*****and and practically give your money to the lawyer.

If you still want to continue to have a life with your hu*****and, read on:

Make sure to understand that man always have a flush of impulse. That is totally understandable.

You should acknowledge that you understand him direct and softly, You may even provide opportunity to make his encounter with her pleasure, while in the meantime, tell him that you understand him and MAKE sure tell him YOU LOVE HIM. Make him happy at home and in BED. Do whatever that fantacize him.

You can further talk to him (语重心长），telling him that a divorce will be very costy. and you do not want to 两败俱伤。 Tell him that you would like to take a step back and agree to overlook his affair with that girl as long as he takes care of you and your baby. You can lay out some conditions. One thing to make sure is require him EAT and SLEEP at your home most of the times. He can sleep with that girl, but make it just like sex, no living TOGETHER

The key is just do not approach the divorce issue directly. Just 拖着。。。

Make him to feel that it is really hard to divorce you ...

Then things will happen. His lover will be impatient and you will keep your hu*****and, and he will come back ...

如果你的性格不是很暴，这可能是个viable approach.

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• also make sure he watches your labor -highlander- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/11/2006 postreply 09:02:02

• a direct delivery will probably turn him around -highlander- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/11/2006 postreply 09:02:38

• 这是什么招呀？ -aprilflower123- ♀ (304 bytes) () 10/11/2006 postreply 09:40:52

• 为什么有外遇了却还要像做对了似的， 有种种的好处 -blahblahbl- ♀ (107 bytes) () 10/11/2006 postreply 13:45:52