Help: going to divorce

First of all I need to say I still love and very depend on my hu*****and because we are over sea. I am going to divorce him because I see I can not get along with his parents and my hu*****and is more closer to them than me. After a long time thinking I feel I'd better divorce him than stay like this. We have a 2 year old son. I am going to keep our son. My parents are here help us taking care of our son right now. Before I tell him that I am goint to divorce, what should I pay attention to get best for my son and me? We own a house and are both working right now. What can I get after we divorce. To deal with their family, I have to keep an eye for myself because I know my father in law is a very deep thinking man and he maybe plan everyting out already. In CA, is there a seperate time required? I know nothing about divorce law yet, please help. Thanks in advance.

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• 回复：Help: going to divorce -67238- ♀ (295 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 08:08:16

• divorce != 没有父亲 -7122- ♀ (37 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 19:28:57

• 问你个问题 -无根的浮萍- ♀ (498 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 11:29:32

• 好主意 -3691- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 11:54:29

• 回复：问你个问题 -71198- ♀ (897 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 16:00:20

• 你要清楚家是你HB和你的, 任何其它原因(人)都不能 -stp- ♂ (234 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 16:58:10

• 再一个建议 -71211- ♀ (260 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 19:12:38

• let them stay at a hotel -68165- ♀ (65 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 09:23:35

• 做饭好啊，大度一点，要你父母以主人姿态对待你的公公婆婆， -71130- ♀ (78 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 09:42:59

• kick parent's out of the house -68165- ♀ (265 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 09:20:22

• 再说你们已经有了孩子，这里是美国，要学会忍耐。别老想着别人的错 -6696- ♀ (40 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 19:13:40

• 回复：再说你们已经有了孩子，这里是美国，要学会忍耐。别老想着别人 -71198- ♀ (267 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 20:38:09

• 回复：回复：再说你们已经有了孩子，这里是美国，要学会忍耐。别老想 -酒- ♀ (102 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 19:15:53

• 回复：Help: going to divorce -2461- ♀ (816 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 20:34:40

• 非常有价值的建议，是过来人的经验，值得看看 -6969- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/10/2006 postreply 22:39:21

• 回复：回复：Help: going to divorce -eleanor- ♀ (424 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 01:58:21

• do not support your divorcing idea -7122- ♀ (398 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 21:26:30

• 如果不满你公婆,就直接对他们说家里很忙,请他们改时间再来. -6794- ♀ (51 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 21:41:32

• I mean you should use your backbone at the -6794- ♀ (133 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 21:47:04

• Your husband and inlaws don't respect your parents -6794- ♀ (405 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 21:58:28

• 回复：Help: going to divorce -texas5555- ♀ (526 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 23:06:27

• 加州是community property state -wensheng- ♀ (89 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 23:20:17

• 回复：Help: going to divorce -24131- ♀ (404 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 14:34:45

• I would throw her out of the window if I were her H -67126- ♀ (125 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 19:56:12

• 回复：Help: going to divorce -單身老貓- ♀ (246 bytes) () 01/03/2006 postreply 09:56:03

• 厚厚，你既不是个好男人，也不是个好律师．．． -汉代蜜瓜- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/09/2006 postreply 15:52:02

• everyone should remember, no matter man or woman, that if you we -keyaye- ♀ (171 bytes) () 01/04/2006 postreply 18:06:01

• secure help -cherrygr- ♀ (564 bytes) () 01/05/2006 postreply 10:35:47

• 上面的男人们，你们摸着良心想想 -汉代蜜瓜- ♀ (338 bytes) () 01/09/2006 postreply 15:58:54

• 回复：Help: going to divorce -13096- ♀ (695 bytes) () 01/16/2006 postreply 16:56:31

• 回复：Help: going to divorce -eleanor- ♀ (48 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 02:09:32

• I can understand you -littlerainshalala- ♀ (1362 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 14:59:00