what the guy said above is wro

The judge will not discuss whose fault is. ( don't we chinese also say: the best jude can not decide who is right or wrong in a marriage? ) So it does not mean who made mistakes who will get less. As for the kids, if they are really young and can not make a decision themselves yet, usually the mother will get the children and father will get the visitation or shared custody, but the father will need to pay the chid support and spousal support, unless the father can prove solid evidence that the mother is not capable of taking care of her kids ( such as sickness, drug addictions, mental health problems, drinking problems such and such. ) so if you want your kids, you have to fight really hard.

As for the division of the proverty, if the first house ( the one only under your wife's name ) was purchased after you two were married, then you are entitled to share. Basically you are entitled to share the properties that are cumulated during the marriage. My advice for you: even if your wife cheated on you and you hate her, but for the sake of your children, deal things rationally. The priority is not for your two to fight, the top priority is your children.

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• this is to reply to 苦恼男人！！！- -letmetelly- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/31/2005 postreply 06:10:47

• you forgot.. -Jellyfish- ♀ (70 bytes) () 07/31/2005 postreply 09:32:27