To 法居士: SeveralpointsToClarify

First of all, if you don’t believe the story, just ignore it. It’s not necessary to use personal insult and attack to show you are superior, smart to others while you are not, esp. as a man, it is a shame for you to do this. The reason for you to be so emotional here today is:
1: you are a famous professional in this forum and how can anybody challenge your knowledge about law? You know everything, and whatever others said which is not same as yours must be wrong.
2: you are friend of that 第三者. 第三者 is the webmaster here and you know clearly what you are doing.

Let me tell you about truth.
During the past two years, my friend did issue restraining order to第三者, and even to her hu*****and (sorry, no details), and in the court they promised they would not harass my friend forever. However, that 第三者 did this again in the legal way right after my friend separated. Everybody takes it for granted that how someone can sue another so freely if they want? Before she experienced those cases, she also thought so. However, it is not the case. The truth is: if you want to sue anybody (small case), go to the court, and file the case and the defendant has to go to the court to prove the innocence. However, before the case is over, nobody will be arrested if there is no serious crime like killing, robbing, etc. involved in it.
In this case, that第三者 just went to the court and filed the case. As for the criminal charge, usually they are very cautious to take the case without proofs. However, that 第三者 exaggerated her story a lot to convince how she was hurt. As far as my friend knew, 第三者 went to several state attorneys to file the case and she was refused. She didn’t give up and went to the next one. The last one accepted the case and filed the charge documents to my friend. Then my friend went to the court several times (because the court time was delayed again and again since the state attorney can’t find any evidence and that第三者 was still convincing she had evidence). Finally after several months investigation (they checked the tape record of phone in that第三者’s company and they even checked my friends’ several months’ cell phone bill and my friend was harassed so much), they still can’t find any proofs. On the last court date, even before the trial, the court announced that this case should be dropped. Another reason for them to drop the case is: the hu*****and of my friend filed a letter to the judge and the state attorney and told every detail information in the past two years and how that第三者 hurt and harassed my friend. Finally the court gave my friend fairness to drop the case without trial, prosecution and record.

In the whole process, there is no police, no arrest involved at all. The legal procedure is: if the defendant can’t prove he/she is innocent, he/she may(or may not, still depends) be arrested. However, before the trial and investigation, how can they arrest somebody before they prove he/she is innocent????

法居士, you did provide some legal help for others here before. However, if your knowledge is very limited, you should admit it and learn more. Don’t insult and attack others if your knowledge is challenged.

Truth is truth. Nobody can’ t change it.



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I'm not法居士at all, but I don't -believeU!!- 给 believeU!! 发送悄悄话 (513 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 13:13:33

U R 法居士!!!! -noArgue.- 给 noArgue. 发送悄悄话 (174 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 13:19:06

WHo r u? that woman's Lover??? -it'swhy>?- 给 it'swhy>? 发送悄悄话 (343 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 13:25:54

I think so, otherwise, why so -overacted?- 给 overacted? 发送悄悄话 (1215 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 14:34:13

赫赫,这里骂人没用,关键是让那男人娶你. -旁观者清.- 给 旁观者清. 发送悄悄话 (124 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 19:26:30

这人一定是第三者,否则贴子里怎么充满了满腔的怨气和仇恨. -有气找那男人撒去.- 给 有气找那男人撒去. 发送悄悄话 (119 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 19:36:18

what a pity woman,充满了满腔的怨气和仇. -BianTai!- 给 BianTai! 发送悄悄话 (232 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 19:41:22

你是第三者吗>怎么把所有反对你的贴都说是人老婆贴的. -实在看不过眼说两句- 给 实在看不过眼说两句 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 19:52:55

这女人在文学城上过好几个男人了.难得对这个这么执着. -也难得这老婆这么倒霉- 给 也难得这老婆这么倒霉 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 20:07:28

回复:To 法居士: Severalpoints -scoopydoo- 给 scoopydoo 发送悄悄话 (1276 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 13:19:33

Thank U so much for understand -ing!!!!- 给 ing!!!! 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 13:23:49

Its not issue of understanding -NotSupport- 给 NotSupport 发送悄悄话 (45 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 14:36:43

Are you idiot or what? -shame....- 给 shame.... 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 19:16:38

白痴!人家明明是在支持楼主.你可真会往自己脸上贴金. -你智商够呛- 给 你智商够呛 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 19:31:19

BTW, personal injury? -moreDetail- 给 moreDetail 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 13:28:19

其实也可从另外的途径提出公诉. -justAnidea- 给 justAnidea 发送悄悄话 (262 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 19:58:39

if this guy didn't have mental -problem,i- 给 problem,i 发送悄悄话 (85 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 13:28:28

真专业.是该告那个第三者. -杀杀她的气焰.- 给 杀杀她的气焰. 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 19:20:02

Shame on U, its U first insult -other...- 给 other... 发送悄悄话 (694 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 14:26:40

这人真歹毒啊,人家请教个问题,就被诋毁成这样. -别是那卖淫的第三者吧- 给 别是那卖淫的第三者吧 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 19:29:18

告诉你.... -第三者....- 给 第三者.... 发送悄悄话 (557 bytes) () 05/18/2005 postreply 19:49:05

既然你是前老婆,何必以别人的名义呢? -你见不得人吗?- 给 你见不得人吗? 发送悄悄话 (5 bytes) () 05/19/2005 postreply 02:52:53

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