是啊，当年邓温迪第一家老婆不离婚，邓温迪也拿不了绿卡。

When Deng was living with Jake and Joyce Cherry during her studies in the United States, Joyce Cherry discovered her husband, Jake, was having an affair with Deng, who was 30 years his junior, and demanded she leave the house. Jake Cherry soon followed and moved in with her,^[11] and the two married in 1990.^[10] Their marriage lasted 2 years 7 months before they were legally divorced,^[11] but Jake would later explain they stayed together for only four or five months,^[10] when he learned that Deng was spending time with David Wolf, a man closer to her age.^[10] Nonetheless, she had been able to secure a green card through her marriage to Cherry

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wendi_Deng_Murdoch?

不过楼主说小三是丈夫的同事，可能已经有H visa了。