不是东风压倒西风，就是西风压倒东风

I know to many smart chinese men with Ph. D. MS, etc. getting into trouble in dealing with their wifes in USA. Some of the wifes are not so smart but they do manage to get their LG,
and a lot of time both of them into holes where the couple has to spend a lot of money
and energy to get out of. Here are some suggestions:

1. Know the law. If you don't know where is the line, you are acting blind.

2. Always in control of your emotion, so you don't go over the line.

3. Proportional response. When your wife is acting outside of the accepted limit,
your responses need to be immediately, proportional and reasonable.

4. Manage your marrige is similar to driving, stay in the line with minor corrections.

Add your own ideas. You don't want to sit on your wife's neck. You also don't want her to
sit on yours.

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• 回复：yeah -yeah- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 11:57:10

• 互相理解，互相包容，该让的时候就得让。不能像楼下那位，动不动 -叫警察- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:03:28

• 当然她可能是醉翁之意不在酒 -人心难测- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:08:50

• 回复：当然她可能是醉翁之意不在酒 -anyhow- ♀ (164 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:12:56

• 想离婚，又想什么都要，那么把老公送进监狱可能是最好的 -办法了- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:26:03

• 你老婆怎么没把你送进监狱？？？ -侠女十三妹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:28:01

• 回复：你老婆怎么没把你送进监狱？？？ -我也动过手1- ♀ (40 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:31:51

• 说实话，你老婆大概除了罗索点，根本上就是太善良！！ -侠女十三妹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:34:37

• 找不到伤，连她自己都说就‘推了几下’，值当的吗！哪来 -那么大的仇- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:36:54

• 呵呵，还要找到伤！你以为老婆是沙袋？？ -侠女十三妹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:38:35

• 得，老公进监狱了，躲一边乐就是了，还非跑这来，好像多大 -委屈一样- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:43:37

• 这是你私人产业，别人不许来？ -侠女十三妹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:44:17

• 人啊，不能太缺德，要遭报应的！ -你们说呢- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:47:33

• 太对了！支持！！进警局就是打老婆的报应！！！ -侠女十三妹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:50:55

• 什末叫动不动就叫警察？不会认中国字啊 -动手好几次了- ♀ (14 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 13:44:46