to 柠檬椰子汁 (modified)

I respect ur posts and learn many things from them. Thanks.

I guess 水中捞月 is right. There is misunderstanding here. I modified this post.

I did not suggest them 转入地下 or 皇上面前一套，自己低下一套.

I suggest them to use that coach as a personal coach. I do not think "Doing personal coaching = “私下”打黑工".

I know in many sports, a player can have his/her personal coach in addition to his club coach. A person can choose to be or not to be a personal coach; that is his choice.

Hopefully my explanation makes it clear.

I just propose suggestions to help.

thanks again, 水中捞月, for your understanding.

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• 俺觉得你们俩都被那个楼主米小带到沟里去了。是她理解水平低惹的祸，她在下面也道了歉的， -水中捞月- ♂ (48 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 07:15:23

• 非法律问题我出错没有什么不好意思的。 -柠檬椰子汁- ♂ (1050 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 07:25:39

• we have different opinion -Smart- ♂ (388 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 07:28:46

• 两位大侠握手，中间那位应该是米小吧。 -水中捞月- ♂ (101 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 07:35:49

• thanks. We are all here to try to help. I actually -Smart- ♂ (30 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 07:38:11

• No hard feelings -柠檬椰子汁- ♂ (191 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 07:43:49

• :) -Smart- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 07:44:19

• 没看那篇东西，给你讲讲私人教练 -慧惠- ♀ (782 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 07:53:41

• 原楼主的意思（好像）就是俱乐部老板要当个人教练，不让外人插手。 -柠檬椰子汁- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 08:02:55

• 不插手有很多考虑，不是完全没有道理，比如教学方式，别人的和自己不一样， -慧惠- ♀ (240 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 08:15:43

• +1, 这就靠家长和小孩自己一起做出正确的决定了。 -arcsigh- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 08:41:34

• +1好的私人教练是必须的，家长全付身心的投入和跟进也是必须的。 -arcsigh- ♀ (326 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 08:38:38

• 最少不得的是钱。一个孩子走到顶峰去，钱铺的地毯。 -wolfkiller8- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 08:42:49

• 当年关颖珊母亲陪着到处练和赛，父亲一个普通工程师，最大限量的借贷额，差点要破产。可还有多少人是到不了她的位子的？ -wolfkiller8- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 08:52:20

• 看项目，花滑是最花钱的，游泳就没那么贵了，一句话 -arcsigh- ♀ (12 bytes) () 03/25/2015 postreply 08:57:54