Find a good lawyer

Find a good lawyer. Do you have the legal service through your company? If you do have, you will save a lot of lawyer fee. Talk to your HR department, you may find out some information. For the lady, you may charge her steal your money or other term. Talk to your lawyer. Also talk to people around you and search internet. Talk to your parent. Don't isolate yourself. I isolated myself when I have the difficult time. I think I did something wrong. We should be open. Don't be weak, show your encouragement. Also talk to us, if you want to later on.

If you still love your husband, divorce him is the best way to do now. First, you have the power to arrange your future life. Secondly, you can protect yourself and your kids more. Thirdly, if he wants come back later (I say if), and you still want to accept him, you are welcome to do it; but at that time, you will have the powder to decide what to do. Take the power into your own hand. Be strong, and be smart. We are very traditional Chinese lady,and we understand you and also what you did for your family. You are not alone. Be strong and smart.

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• You feel get cheated -daisy1111- ♀ (247 bytes) () 07/23/2014 postreply 11:49:04

• 是的。在尝夠了无情无义后，大家的安慰使我感到非常溫暖，使我有勇气去面对離婚。我相信明天会好起來的。 -苦女- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/23/2014 postreply 13:07:28

• You will be fine -daisy1111- ♀ (86 bytes) () 07/23/2014 postreply 13:45:55

• 你很nice。你的苦口婆心和诚心诚意的鼓励真让我都感动！是啊，在这个世界上人和人之间真的是需要爱，温暖和鼓励。感谢文学城这个平台 -wen47- ♀ (84 bytes) () 07/23/2014 postreply 12:54:29

• 你们家现在的最大的事是你大孩子考大学。八月一日右左common app就available了。你们当父母的还离什么婚。赶快去填表 -sgwaitgc- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/25/2014 postreply 07:03:13

• 离婚之后，你老公的工资就????能花在你孩子大学学费上了。 -sgwaitgc- ♀ (893 bytes) () 07/25/2014 postreply 07:23:29

• 学费 -苦女- ♀ (213 bytes) () 07/25/2014 postreply 16:14:21

• Take student loan -daisy1111- ♀ (676 bytes) () 07/25/2014 postreply 19:33:18

• 那就太便宜他了 -苦女- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/26/2014 postreply 18:19:37