劳务纠纷, 诚心请教!

我是做Software Contract的. 2013年开始做一项目. 该项目是给一美国公司(以下称为XXX)做的, 由一加拿大公司(以下称为YYY)签的合同.  YYY和XXX的关系很好, 和我关系也很好(没闹僵前...). 我干活, YYY付钱给我.

问题:
1) YYY和我没签文字合同, 有口头协议. 我一直要求签文字合同, 但YYY一直拖. 估计是想多拿些钱, 又怕我不同意.
2) YYY从来不按时, 按约定的比例给钱. 但先后也付了十几万.
3) 我的工期有拖. 一方面是人手不够, 其他项目的压力也不小; 另一方面软件项目工期确实很难保证. 这在做之前我明说了, XXX和YYY都表示理解.
4) 最近YYY又有两个月没付钱. 我将此事通知XXX了. XXX非常Concern. 先对YYY施加压力, 后来YYY估计吓唬了XXX, 说了我很多坏话. 上星期, XXX终止了项目.

现状:
今天, YYY给我EMAIL, 说:
1) XXX has met with his lawyer and they have advised him that not only does he have a legitimate claim against us for all the money he has paid but he can also go after a business interruption claim as this has been a waste of time for him and his company since Feb 2013.
2) YYY要求我把他付我的十几万还给他.

我如何应对:
1) 不还钱, 等着打官司. 这项目我们先后有3个人参与, 付出很多时间和精力. 我们的问题在于工期拖了, 但在闹僵前, XXX是可以接受的, 有大量EMAIL为证. XXX对我们的工作也很满意.
2) 还钱, 认了. 没在这里打过官司, 怕影响精力, 影响其他项目. 我在当地这行当口碑很好.

敬请指点, 诚心请教!

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