长成了这个样子还嫌自己不好看;我以前还一直以为我长得那什么。。。。。
Tragic 11-year-old killed herself as she was 'unhappy with her looks' after revealing heartbreaking plan on Instagram
3/11
An 11-year-old girl unhappy with her looks took her own life after revealing her heartbreaking plan to die on Instagram .
Milly Tuomey kept a 'suicide diary' and once wrote "beautiful girls don't eat" on her arm in biro after self harming.
She died on January 4 last year, three days after a suicide attempt at her home in Dublin.
A coroner recorded a verdict of suicide at an inquest into the schoolgirl's death, the Irish Mirror reported .
“Milly was loving and greatly loved, fit, healthy, connected, engaged and talented,” the child’s devastated parents Fiona and Tim Tuomey said in a statement after the inquest.
“When we discovered out of the blue that our child had told her friends on Instagram that she had chosen the day she would die, we couldn’t believe it. We did not know what to do,” they said.
Dublin Coroner’s Court heard that on November 3, 2015 Milly posted on Instagram to hundreds of friends of her intention to die on a certain date. Her parents were alerted by her elder sister and her school.
They took Milly to see their GP and during this visit Milly expressed a death wish.
She spoke about thoughts of self harm and said she had been unhappy with her physical appearance for a number of years. Her GP recommended she see a clinical psychologist at An Cuan, a private counselling and psychotherapy clinic.
The Tuomeys made an appointment but the psychologist was no longer taking patients. Milly was assigned to an art therapist, who was not qualified to make clinical assessments, the inquest heard.
The child began a series of weekly appointments on November 24 2015 where she was encouraged to explore her emotions through verbal and visual means.
After Milly’s first visit, the therapist advised Mrs Tuomey to make an appointment with the HSE's Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS).
An appointment was made for January 30 2016 but this was brought forward after Mrs Twomey found a ‘suicide diary’ along with medication indicating an attempt at self harm under her daughter’s bed.
“She’d cut herself and written in biro on herself, ‘beautiful girls don’t eat’,” Mrs Tuomey told the court.
“We were terrified. We had no experience of this and no idea what to do,” she said.
The family was advised to go to their local emergency department if any concerns arose over Christmas or out of hours.
The court heard that on January 1, 2016 the family ate dinner together and watched a film. That evening, Milly declared she was bored and left the room.
She was found moments later in a critical condition and emergency services were called. She was rushed to Our Lady’s Children’s Hospital where she died on January 4.
Irish children as young as seven have expressed suicidal ideation, Psychiatrist Dr Antoinette D’Alton told the court.
“Years ago this would have been unimaginable. Now suicidal ideation is increasing in children as young as seven. There is a care pathway but it is under resourced,” Dr D’Alton said.