人的感情就像牙齿,掉了就没了,再装也是假的,掉了的东西就不要捡了

来源: 留日生活 2019-11-24 22:38:14 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (2347 bytes)

人的感情就像牙齿,掉了就没了,再装也是假的,掉了的东西就不要捡了,接受突如其来的失去,珍惜不期而遇的惊喜。
经年以后,才明白,一个人的世界真的不需要太过拥挤,有人来,有人去,是再寻常不过的事。无论是何种感情,拥有的时候珍惜,失去的时候释怀,随缘若水,且行且惜,便是不负光阴。爱的真谛,从来不是占有,而是成全。
在这个世界上,没有一劳永逸、完美无缺的选择。你不可能同时拥有春花和秋月,不可能同时拥有硕果和繁花。不可能所有的好处都是你的。你要学会权衡利弊,学会放弃一些什么,然后才可能得到些什么。你要学会接受命的残缺和悲哀,然后,心平气和。因为,这就是人生。

 

People's feelings are like teeth. If they fall, they will be gone. If they are loaded, they will be fake. If you lose something, don't be embarrassed. Accept the sudden loss and cherish the unexpected surprise.
After the year, I realized that the world of a person really does not need to be too crowded. Some people come and some people go. It is a common thing. No matter what kind of feelings, when you have it, you will cherish it, when you lose it, you will be relieved, if you follow the water, and you will pay for it, you will live up to it. The true meaning of love is never possession, but fulfillment.
There is no one-size-fits-all choice in this world. You can't have both spring flowers and autumn months, and you can't have fruit and flowers at the same time. It is impossible that all the benefits are yours. You have to learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can get something. You must learn to accept the incompleteness and sorrow of your life, and then, be calm. Because this is life.




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人的感情為哈就像牙齿?吉林省人士? -飯盛男- 给 飯盛男 发送悄悄话 飯盛男 的博客首页 (59 bytes) () 11/24/2019 postreply 23:06:08

可能是因为,N年前我们都是山东老乡吧 -留日生活- 给 留日生活 发送悄悄话 留日生活 的博客首页 (123 bytes) () 11/25/2019 postreply 06:11:33

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