In certain degree, I am a loser..

来源: T.O 于 2008-01-08 09:45:18 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (858 bytes)

I came to the US ten years ago. Gave up my career in architectural design (I had my own small firm back then) and spent two years getting my MBA degree from a 2nd tier college. Working as an accounting manager for eight years and making $100K/yr in east coast. Sounds Ok, right? Well, the thing is that I missed the biggest construction and economic boom that's been going on in China for years. Some of classmates and co-workers back in China have become very successful either doing architectural design and real estate development. What do I have? A f*cking boring job, a dickhead boss who does nothing but bullsh*tting. I can't stop thinking where I would be if I stay in China. I would have been much happier doing what I love to do and staying close to my parents and friends. The reality is that my so called "American dream" is a total failure.

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• 回复：non stock related. Just want to vent -T.O- ♀ 给 T.O 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:44:34

• 相由心生。烦恼都是自找的。知足者常乐。 -layworld- ♂ 给 layworld 发送悄悄话 layworld 的博客首页 (12 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:44:57

• 回复：I know what my problem is, but I just can't -T.O- ♀ 给 T.O 发送悄悄话 (11 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:46:32

• if you are in China, you will admire your -layworld- ♂ 给 layworld 发送悄悄话 layworld 的博客首页 (37 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:00:24

• 回复：agree -zzzzzh- ♂ 给 zzzzzh 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:45:21

• 回复：I am pretty many of you have the same feeling -T.O- ♀ 给 T.O 发送悄悄话 (53 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:48:45

• 有见地! being a loser is not bad at all -老割- ♂ 给 老割 发送悄悄话 (156 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:49:01

• when nothing to lose, called MAX PAIN -博龙手- ♂ 给 博龙手 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:51:45

• 回复：It took me some time to face the reality -T.O- ♀ 给 T.O 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:52:09

• agree but what you can do now? -博龙手- ♂ 给 博龙手 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:50:07

• 回复：Nothing except kicking myself -T.O- ♀ 给 T.O 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:55:21

• even worse, you are making too little on east coast -putwriter- ♂ 给 putwriter 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:50:27

• 回复：Thank u for giving me another dose of reality -T.O- ♀ 给 T.O 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:53:46

• You gave other chances to feel a little better..hhhh -FaCai168- ♂ 给 FaCai168 发送悄悄话 FaCai168 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:56:26

• 回复：I guess that's only positive thing -T.O- ♀ 给 T.O 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:58:37

• 风水轮流转.往后看已经没用.别自找苦恼了. -特大型地壳冲击钻- ♂ 给 特大型地壳冲击钻 发送悄悄话 特大型地壳冲击钻 的博客首页 (281 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:55:45

• you are not alone, man! most people who came here -pediatrician2- ♂ 给 pediatrician2 发送悄悄话 pediatrician2 的博客首页 (251 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:55:57

• cheer up! Think this way -pzzdm- ♂ 给 pzzdm 发送悄悄话 pzzdm 的博客首页 (267 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 09:59:17

• me loser too, big news come out, though make money from stock. -mpel_win- ♂ 给 mpel_win 发送悄悄话 mpel_win 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:01:17

• 回复：My wife said when she married me, I was a -T.O- ♀ 给 T.O 发送悄悄话 (105 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:02:56

• Tell your wife: she got a 绩优股 -vcpp- ♂ 给 vcpp 发送悄悄话 vcpp 的博客首页 (66 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:27:56

• Average Americans do not feel that bad. But many -红油抄手- ♂ 给 红油抄手 发送悄悄话 (167 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:04:12

• I come to US in 1993, went back to China and then -红油抄手- ♂ 给 红油抄手 发送悄悄话 (90 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:08:49

• 回复：Once u miss it, it's gone -T.O- ♀ 给 T.O 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:17:40

• a lot of elite brilliant chinese MDs here become -pediatrician2- ♂ 给 pediatrician2 发送悄悄话 pediatrician2 的博客首页 (66 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:07:06

• 回复：Thank u for making me feel better -T.O- ♀ 给 T.O 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:18:20

• comfort, sigh... -armorr- ♂ 给 armorr 发送悄悄话 armorr 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:31:42

• Coming to US is not bad idea. Mistake is -k-18- ♂ 给 k-18 发送悄悄话 (274 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:36:53

• 回复：I wanted to go back in 1999. But my parents -T.O- ♀ 给 T.O 发送悄悄话 (21 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:46:28

• I stayed here because getting a job is "easy" -k-18- ♂ 给 k-18 发送悄悄话 (241 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:57:22

• agree,mine is worse -chtoph- ♂ 给 chtoph 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:46:38

• 回中国去你可能变成更大的loser -dividend_growth- ♀ 给 dividend_growth 发送悄悄话 dividend_growth 的博客首页 (96 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:52:45

• You are better than 90% overseas Chinese. What the heck... -TellMe123- ♂ 给 TellMe123 发送悄悄话 TellMe123 的博客首页 (416 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 10:57:23

• your whole life is just a waste. 回复：In certain degree, I am a lo -hhha- ♀ 给 hhha 发送悄悄话 hhha 的博客首页 (49 bytes) () 01/08/2008 postreply 11:41:25

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