冲动是魔鬼！ Please ask yourself "does he still love you?" If the answ

However if he still loves you, and you two just lost your cool when fighting over trivial stuff, then perhaps you should minimize the damage and forgive him. Of course if it is a solid domestic violence case, it is a different story. Otherwise, think about the cricumstance how and why it happened? Did you somehow lose your composure as well, orally or perhaps even physically? The point is that divorce is such an easy word to say, but it hurts both of you as well as your family in the long run, if the two of you still love each other.