问离婚- 很失落，请求帮助

在中国结婚，现在美国工作。老公和我都是H-1B。老公刚开始办绿卡。有1 两岁小孩。

老公长期隐埋与一“表姐”关系。

包括借1万美金救济她炒股(1万美金从我们共同帐户划出未同我说达9个月之长，直
到戏剧性银行打电话来，因为还款电汇错误，他不得不坦白。

表姐在加拿大，有老公有小孩。表姐这次回成都，老公还在加。我们正好也回家探
亲。老公把小孩送我家代，他不同住。两个星期中从未来我家好好看看我父母说说
话。他却有空飞去成都探表姐两天。

回来时发觉他包里有避孕套。问他，他解释说中国买的便宜。我说那为啥是开封的，还用了两个。他说以后同你解释，后又说因我不太和他房事，他自己用。我心存疑惑。

回美国后无意中看见他和表姐 email ，语言暧昧。老公还讨照片，照片很正常，我看了也没说。两天后因说到国内同学聚会照片，我问他 email 是否还有别的照片，他说没。我说你的表姐呢。他说没照片。一再强调，说怎么会有照片。还扯开去说表姐小孩照片以前不是给你看过。

我说你说谎，我看过你email ，明明有照片，正大光明的，为何见不得人？他立即发怒，说我偷看。

我记得清清楚楚他的面部表情，因为我早知有照片，我想看看他说谎的样子，他很自然，很委屈，很无辜 until I pointed out that I have evidence. His face sudently changed.

I am so shocked. I am not mad at the issue itself but his attitude. I cannot trust him any more if he can lie like this.

I'd like to file for divorce. He want the baby and I want the baby, too. He makes more money than I do but he do not know how to cook and stuff...

We purchased two houses in U.S.while we are still married. He didn't put my name on the title. I contributed to the mortage every month. We are in Minnesota.

Can we divorce here if we got married in China? How? I'd like to protect my rights. Please help. Thanks.

Kenny Mom

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• 回复： -Knini- ♀ (40 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 11:29:17

• one more question -knini- ♀ (529 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 11:57:08

• I agree with you -knini- ♀ (162 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:33:07

• 只有一个问题,你是单身吗? -風見鶏- ♂ (15 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 12:44:57

• 你是居民委员会的，我是風見鶏 -風見鶏- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 12:54:01

• Thanks for listening and all your advices -knini- ♀ (612 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:44:29

• 楼主的条件不大符合I-360的条件. 她HB才刚 -stp- ♂ (78 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 20:54:28

• 一般没个县，都有为弱者，妇女离婚，受纽带的那种服务热线 -月半豆豆- ♀ (117 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:35:56

• He never hit me, he's just a lier. Domestic Violence still apply -knini- ♀ (30 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:53:08

• 我觉得，你有些怕你老公。有没有，有些 -月半豆豆- ♀ (14 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 14:03:58

• you are all nice person. God bless you. -knini- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:51:11

• Consult a lawyer -zxcvbnm007- ♂ (726 bytes) () 02/03/2006 postreply 19:47:59

• 你快没丈夫啦,加把劲. -風見鶏- ♂ (16 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 12:22:20

• 回复：你快没丈夫啦,加把劲. -Knini- ♀ (130 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:25:27

• 他弱智你不用搭理 -2479- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:27:12

• 回复：回复：你快没丈夫啦,加把劲. -風見鶏- ♂ (394 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:40:07

• 回复：回复：回复：你快没丈夫啦,加把劲. -knini- ♀ (116 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:50:14

• What he said is from the famous story about... -Bodd- ♀ (152 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 15:52:54

• 一派胡言乱语, 什么男人都会犯的错!? 女人也一样呀, -黑白分明- ♀ (225 bytes) () 01/26/2006 postreply 17:59:25

• 我的建议... -redpepper- ♀ (619 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 20:27:51

• 大部分州对离婚都有分居时限，你们分居多长时间 -小胖妈- ♀ (354 bytes) () 01/25/2006 postreply 09:52:00

• 回复：问离婚- 很失落，请求帮助 -annaqiqi- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2006 postreply 23:21:47