It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.
While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.
He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'
He smiled as he patted my hand and said,
'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought,
'That is the kind of love I want in my life.'
True love is neither physical, nor romantic.
True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message.. This one I thought I could share with you.
The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
I hope you share this with someone you care about. I just did.
'Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.'
We are all getting Older.
Tomorrow may be our turn.
Enjoy life now, it has an expiration date!
文字来源:外子的邮件
音乐 源自lili的帖,深谢~
The Rain
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謝謝娓娓分享這篇動人故事。
-费嘉-
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08/19/2010 postreply
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费嘉你好~
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08/19/2010 postreply
15:15:28
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优美的文字,动听的音乐。谢谢娓娓!
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08/19/2010 postreply
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谢谢胖哥阅读~ 好文共赏~ :))
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08/19/2010 postreply
15:16:19
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Touched: 'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'
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08/19/2010 postreply
14:44:20
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我也为这句话感动到心底~ 谢谢阅读 :))
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08/19/2010 postreply
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also like this:'Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but h
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08/19/2010 postreply
14:45:30
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故事结尾前的几句话都很打动人心,和你一样,很欣赏。
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08/19/2010 postreply
15:18:50
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感动!She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'
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08/19/2010 postreply
16:10:09
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谢谢五七分享你的朗诵,真好听。
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08/19/2010 postreply
16:26:43
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哎,要不是那只苹果。。。。。。
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08/19/2010 postreply
17:15:33
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那怎么有来世的感天动地? ~~ :))
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08/19/2010 postreply
17:59:25
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娓,谢分享
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08/19/2010 postreply
18:10:58
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娓姐,我想起有本书‘NOTE BOOK'里的男女主角的故事。
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08/19/2010 postreply
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是电影《The Note Book》的原著吗?
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08/19/2010 postreply
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回复:是电影《The Note Book》的原著吗?
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08/19/2010 postreply
19:02:25
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哈哈~ 还有这事?
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08/19/2010 postreply
19:09:47
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很感人,这个故事早就听说过。
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08/19/2010 postreply
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晓雨好~
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08/19/2010 postreply
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谢谢娓娓的故事,我认识一个80多岁的老人家,每天去探望老人院和医院的老人,感动。。
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08/19/2010 postreply
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能给身边的亲人、友人、甚至陌生人带来快乐的人,有大爱跻身。谢谢花姐分享。问好,晚安。
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08/19/2010 postreply
23:18:24
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学习了,谢分享。
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08/20/2010 postreply
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谢谢大坐家来阅读这些小儿科的读物,周末愉快~~ :))
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08/20/2010 postreply
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感叹。幸福其实就在身边,只要我们稍稍为别人做一点点儿
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08/20/2010 postreply
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心无好~ 你说得很对!心里有别人时,愉快和幸福早晚会平安而至 :))
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08/20/2010 postreply
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nice one, thanks for sharing~
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08/20/2010 postreply
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谢谢Ferry阅读,周末愉快~~ :))
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08/20/2010 postreply
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感动~~~谢谢分享动人的故事~问娓娓好!~~:)
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08/24/2010 postreply
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