CEO 叶总， 你不理解在美出生的华人，不认同中国

来源: 2horses 于 2008-11-17 13:06:19 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (1468 bytes)

你不理解在美出生的华人，不认同中国， 这是正常的。俺没说是正确的。
他们从小受美国教育长大，认为自己是美国人，这跟我们从小在中国长大，血液里有中国情节一样。 问问老杜，他的儿子是怎么“认同”中国的。

Honeybird早把这个问题说得很清楚！她的英文比你的好，说得到位：


Think whatever you want. His heritage is not defined by you or Local Access打往中国电话卡1.3￠/分种

来源: honeybird 于 08-11-16 22:18:47 [档案] [博客] [旧帖] [转至博客] [给我悄悄话]


回答: Because he discriminates against his own heritage relentlessly 由 Simply_leaf 于 2008-11-16 21:48:22
You are basically saying, because someone looks yellow, so he/she must feel yellow, and behave like yellow and choose yellow as his/her favorite color? That is absurd.

I was in London a couple of months ago for business. A client of mine is a British Indian. He owns a big company and speaks perfect british accent.

There are many that are like him UK. They lived there for 2nd, 3rd, 4th ....generations, they speak perfect British accent, are well established in the society, lawyers, docs, business owners, etc., ..... There is nothing about them that is Indian EXCEPT THEY WAY THEY LOOK. Are you saying they should identify themselves as Indian? No, they don't. Anyone think they should / must feel like they are Indian and should be so close to their Indian roots is a clear example of judging by skin color, not the person who they are.


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• she knows. she got so many kids with different men :-) -guy100- ♂ 给 guy100 发送悄悄话 guy100 的博客首页 (7 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:10:06

• Many kids and different husbands? new story, do tell pls! -2horses- ♂ 给 2horses 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:14:16

• To set the record straight: 1 boy only -Simply_leaf- ♀ 给 Simply_leaf 发送悄悄话 Simply_leaf 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:29:51

• OMG, how did you have time to chart online everyday -2horses- ♂ 给 2horses 发送悄悄话 (98 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:32:05

• He is 13 and very mature. Top of his class without -Simply_leaf- ♀ 给 Simply_leaf 发送悄悄话 Simply_leaf 的博客首页 (90 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:35:14

• useless. most ch kids were top of the class. piano + math club. -Guy100- ♂ 给 Guy100 发送悄悄话 Guy100 的博客首页 (51 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:43:34

• My son is the star :-) without me being pushy. -Simply_leaf- ♀ 给 Simply_leaf 发送悄悄话 Simply_leaf 的博客首页 (19 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:52:33

• yes u r. but why didnot u asnwer my question abt jose -Guy100- ♂ 给 Guy100 发送悄悄话 Guy100 的博客首页 (27 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:57:49

• why did jose refuse to give u another kid? :-) -Guy100- ♂ 给 Guy100 发送悄悄话 Guy100 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:33:13

• i remember u wanted more with him :-) -Guy100- ♂ 给 Guy100 发送悄悄话 Guy100 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:33:37

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• too old,too small and too little,and can't swim,lol -左右逢源- ♂ 给 左右逢源 发送悄悄话 左右逢源 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:37:34

• 酸。怎一个酸字了得。 -Simply_leaf- ♀ 给 Simply_leaf 发送悄悄话 Simply_leaf 的博客首页 (15 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:40:03

• I don't see 酸in ZY's words. Maybe he's just telling a fact?LOL -2horses- ♂ 给 2horses 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:41:14

• 你怎么知道，又没请你到我床前打更？ -Simply_leaf- ♀ 给 Simply_leaf 发送悄悄话 Simply_leaf 的博客首页 (12 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:46:04

• 别太关心人家，都是大人了 -mknc- ♂ 给 mknc 发送悄悄话 mknc 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:37:58

• then u zip up and quietly sit and listen. -Guy100- ♂ 给 Guy100 发送悄悄话 Guy100 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:38:57

• I've been listening. You talk the smartest -mknc- ♂ 给 mknc 发送悄悄话 mknc 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:40:24

• mknc,how's your figure-skating practice? -左右逢源- ♂ 给 左右逢源 发送悄悄话 左右逢源 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:39:53

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• 这里的男人怎么都那么mean？比女人都过分。叶子的气量 -五里桥- ♀ 给 五里桥 发送悄悄话 (54 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 15:25:41

• she's a racist,which is THE established fact in this forum. -左右逢源- ♂ 给 左右逢源 发送悄悄话 左右逢源 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:11:31

• her past comments include:你们这些中国男人心里面想什么别以为我不知道 -左右逢源- ♂ 给 左右逢源 发送悄悄话 左右逢源 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:13:19

• hey, she brags Jose is frm Ivy league too :-) -Guy100- ♂ 给 Guy100 发送悄悄话 Guy100 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:21:16

• 叶子在对蜜总的问题上，认识还是很正确的呀 -111- ♀ 给 111 发送悄悄话 111 的博客首页 (46 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:24:02

• u all forgot abt her age. time is running out on her -Guy100- ♂ 给 Guy100 发送悄悄话 Guy100 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:27:14

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• she won't be happy, if she ends up marrying this banana -111- ♀ 给 111 发送悄悄话 111 的博客首页 (26 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:33:14

• 引用勇MM以前的一句话:听起来好像蛮色色的。lol... -左右逢源- ♂ 给 左右逢源 发送悄悄话 左右逢源 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:35:29

• then she can only stay single which might be even worse. -Guy100- ♂ 给 Guy100 发送悄悄话 Guy100 的博客首页 (28 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:36:07

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• ask Bluemoon, she very much enjoys her single life -111- ♀ 给 111 发送悄悄话 111 的博客首页 (63 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 14:05:58

• She is an "wired old virgin" , u donot want learn frm her -Guy100- ♂ 给 Guy100 发送悄悄话 Guy100 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 19:31:01

• 千万别把人当成物品来看待 -mknc- ♂ 给 mknc 发送悄悄话 mknc 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:36:25

• and she does have power over Chinese man, -2horses- ♂ 给 2horses 发送悄悄话 (49 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:28:34

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• 其实banana怎么想中国确实不重要 -111- ♀ 给 111 发送悄悄话 111 的博客首页 (239 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:12:57

• what can she do? 35 yrs old with a prior abusive experience? -guy100- ♂ 给 guy100 发送悄悄话 guy100 的博客首页 (30 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:19:00

• if she were 25, i wud give her a diff advice. -Guy100- ♂ 给 Guy100 发送悄悄话 Guy100 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:25:30

• 对于不尊重女性的男人来说，再好再差的女人对他都不值 -mknc- ♂ 给 mknc 发送悄悄话 mknc 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:33:47

• Well said! Please don't get me wrong, I do respect -2horses- ♂ 给 2horses 发送悄悄话 (142 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:38:52

• All women deserve respect -mknc- ♂ 给 mknc 发送悄悄话 mknc 的博客首页 (360 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:50:08

• Come on Mzong, we're having fun here, CEO -2horses- ♂ 给 2horses 发送悄悄话 (92 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:54:51

• Certainly :-) -mknc- ♂ 给 mknc 发送悄悄话 mknc 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:59:04

• to respect a b*tch = sb ! -guy100- ♂ 给 guy100 发送悄悄话 guy100 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:55:16

• so it to fight with a B*tch -playitagain- ♂ 给 playitagain 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 14:46:35

• 有种！好！ -Simply_leaf- ♀ 给 Simply_leaf 发送悄悄话 Simply_leaf 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:43:54

• 那不是一个一般的banana，是她的lover -playitagain- ♂ 给 playitagain 发送悄悄话 (50 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:35:53

• 我怎么不知道？我自己的儿子是美国人。但别人问他他的heritage -Simply_leaf- ♀ 给 Simply_leaf 发送悄悄话 Simply_leaf 的博客首页 (363 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:33:12

• USA team vs China team, which team he cheers for? -Guy100- ♂ 给 Guy100 发送悄悄话 Guy100 的博客首页 (18 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:38:02

• Same as your son :-) but he likes girls with -Simply_leaf- ♀ 给 Simply_leaf 发送悄悄话 Simply_leaf 的博客首页 (62 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:42:05

• u mean he likes big leg girls too :-) haha, just kidding :-) -Guy100- ♂ 给 Guy100 发送悄悄话 Guy100 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:44:53

• Right, my coworker who is an ABC, very nice person, -2horses- ♂ 给 2horses 发送悄悄话 (127 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 13:43:54

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• 透彻,不同层次的人是无法交流的 -开国际玩笑- ♂ 给 开国际玩笑 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 16:20:48

• Bravo!!! -Simply_leaf- ♀ 给 Simply_leaf 发送悄悄话 Simply_leaf 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/17/2008 postreply 18:21:19

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