Fairly said, which was why I said at the beginning

that technically he will be a better fit for someone who is also American/ABC. But this is who I need to deal with right now.

Thanks for sharing your own exp. Not sure what you guys do for a living, but if your hu*****and is not self-employed and his stocks are truly higher in the US job mkt and he is at a age where you just cannot fxxk around anymore (like get int'l experience for 1-2 yrs and then come back), and he's already been not working for a yr + due to the financial crisis and dying to get back to the job scene, would you still want him to drop everything and move to China with you? Would his career (if you love him and plan to be with him for life) be your concern as well?

My bf's argument is that his stock is so much higher here and 0 in Asia, and mine might be higher in Asia but how much higher he does not know, but us combined is definitely higher here.

Things just get more complex with the parents consideration here.

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