This is the second time William, 13, has been temporarily adopted. The last time he was 11. William, 11 and 13, had the same goal: to be reunited with his dad. For this he worked very hard to be a good boy. He is well behaved, disciplined, very sunny, greets everyone warmly, and does housework. When I see my husband and I busy in the backyard, I always ask if I can help
He and the social worker and everyone pledged that he would be a good boy so he could be reunited with his dad sooner. Birthday wish, William wants to see dad as soon as possible. Dad was everything to him. His father, a single father, (who disappeared after his birth mother gave birth), has no job, and lives in government-run low-rent housing, because drugs have gone to jail again. The last time William was home for a few months, he was taken away by social workers. Many children of this age in China already understand the gap between the rich and the poor, are snobbish, and know how to plan to live a prosperous life. Surrounded by fathers who curry favor with Xiaosan and despise the children of poor mothers. William rejected the neighbor's (business executive) retention, gave up the Disney luxury tour, gave up the opportunity to cross the class, and waited for his father wholeheartedly. When we had a bonfire in the backyard together, he always talked fondly about how Dad would cook meat on the bonfire and how Dad would fish. Always suddenly say while driving: Look! My dad took me to that restaurant to eat. No one dared to tell him that the government was considering taking William permanently because of his father's drugs and crime. He couldn't be reunited with Dad not because he wasn't a good boy, but because Dad couldn't provide the safe environment legally given to children. Everyone is afraid that the day he knows the truth, if he can't be with Dad, will he break down and give up on himself. Like the boss who smokes marijuana, despite the best efforts of his adoptive parents, he cannot save his distorted view. Once abandoned by this world, I choose to abandon this world and watch it indifferently. I want to tell him that when he is 18 years old, he can live with his father. Just wait 5 years. But 5 years for a 13-year-old is half his life, basically forever. A child who loves his father deeply, how can he survive these long 5 years? His father must have loved him too. But the father-son relationship could not resist the temptation of drugs. Even if he can be reunited with his dad, with a dad who doesn't work and does drugs, is it really good for him? Will he go from a good boy to his father's old path? Whenever I hear William talking about his dad, I think of the Japanese cartoon "Mimi's Wandering" I watched as a child: -- I am not afraid of falling rain, nor am I afraid of falling snow, --Even if the cold wind and snow fall, I can see him, and I can see him every day, no matter how big the wind and snow is. --I'm looking for my dad --I'll find my father when I go there...
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