My question is NOT about if I have enough money.

Yes, I do have enough money to cover them both. It is about where, when, how much and whom I will spend money on in a logic way, which will make me happy, hopefully others happy too:) If you read my questions once again, there I was not asking how I should choose what to do. Indeed, I know what I am going to do. I just like to know what you guys will do in this situation so that I will understand regular people's logic on this. Anyway, thanks for your participation!

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• 你觉得你帮儿子付了学费而对方有学贷你就吃亏了所以你不想替自己孩子付学费了。你自己的钱你做主。 -小松松- ♀ (216 bytes) () 05/08/2022 postreply 23:13:22

• Your conclusion is great. This is what I want to -day_dream- ♂ (60 bytes) () 05/08/2022 postreply 23:16:41