It may be a reflex, conditioned when he was younger, when

 

he faced difficulties that he couldn't handle.  By tearing up, his mind got to get distracted from the fear induced by the inability.

Tell him, whenever there is an issue/problem/difficulty, do not feel it but engage his thought.  For him, this may be easier said than done.  But what he needs is to re-condition his mind, so that his right brain does not overwhelm his left brain.

Feeling, in most situations, is a liability. It delays rational thoughts.  Only rational thoughts can solve problems, feelings only make them worse.

Tell him to value himself. He is worthy of the time it takes. Do not rush himself. Things can wait. People can wait. He has all the time he needs to come up with a solution.

There are children's version of the Bible that fits his reading level. He may need a wider view of the world and life.

 

 

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• 谢谢你的分析。他很小就读了插图版的儿童圣经，现在开始读NIV版本。总体来说他的泪水少了，但遇到事情容易被情绪控制，希望随着年龄和 -小猪蹄妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/01/2021 postreply 19:26:15

• He is young, time is still on his side. -One1618- ♂ (658 bytes) () 08/01/2021 postreply 20:17:23