儿子要穷养

 

Let him know that he will make his own living; your money is yours. Do not give cash readily. Let him earn it by doing chores. That's all because you respect him as an individual human being. He should take pride in being his own man.

Watch more Westerns with him.  John Wayne, Clint Eastwood, ones made by Sergio Leone with music by Ennio Morricone.  He needs some mental energy.