If your focus is on certain outcome,

you will be worried.

Your child can sense that worry, and it has an effect on him, he'll be worried too, because the burden is on him to produce that outcome.  He has to manage your expectations by being tardy.

Not easy to not have the outcome in mind.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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• 有道理。为了照顾小孩心理，父母真是不容易 -蓝莓儿- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/08/2021 postreply 20:03:09

• +1 -love1111- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/08/2021 postreply 20:13:15