推荐两个documentary：Trophy Kids和The Short Game

拍的很好。大部分父母不是那么极端的，但是确实有推孩子体育推过头的。在你看这两个documentary觉得那些父母可笑的时候里，是否也能看到自己的影子呢？

还有一本非常好的书Until It Hurts, 里面有几个可以测验你是不是推过头的问题：

Here are eight common signs that you’re overboard as a sports parents. You:

1. find yourself talking about your child’s sport more than your child.
2. are highly critical of your child’s coach.
3. talk to your child more like a coach than a parent (i.e. always giving advice, instruction, and critiques).
4. constantly tell your child to practice more.
5. seem more emotionally invested in the sport than your child (i.e. you get more upset than he or she does about a lost game or performance mistake).
6. get a great deal of status and prestige from your child’s athletic accomplishments.
7. believe that if your child just tried harder he or she could be successful at sports.
8. aren’t hearing what your child is telling you (i.e., “Mom, I don’t like when you stand behind me and tell me what to do.” or “Dad, it makes me nervous when you come to my games”).

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