whatever u or others say, I will not feel happy

if my son will need to pay loans for his wife, unless the wife is really really good. I guess I belong to the near-sighted parents in this forum.

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• i agree, it is just personal feeling. I will not -Smart- ♂ (109 bytes) () 09/12/2018 postreply 09:25:34

• btw, how is your son's application? I look -Smart- ♂ (42 bytes) () 09/12/2018 postreply 09:26:59

• 尊重你不happy的感觉，但没有人会care你是否happy.而且你的不happy对你儿媳表露的话，儿媳会把怨气出在儿子身上。 -Sarahzhou- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/12/2018 postreply 09:27:01

• 最后最难过的是自己的儿子，身累不太会有什么事，心累就很会伤身体。所以为了自己儿子的幸福，这个"亏"必需要吃的。 -Sarahzhou- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/12/2018 postreply 09:29:33

• also we just talked about one factor here. All other -Smart- ♂ (196 bytes) () 09/12/2018 postreply 09:35:59

• my son will care if i am happy or not, just like -Smart- ♂ (241 bytes) () 09/12/2018 postreply 09:31:31

• 就是再正常的家庭，对无理取闹的不happy也不会在意吧，就像小孩子不happy哭要满足什么,家里也不都会满足吧。 -Sarahzhou- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/12/2018 postreply 09:35:39

• 如果你觉得可以用自己的情绪和父母的情感成为控制儿子的人，而不尊重儿子自己的人生及选择。祝你幸运。 -Sarahzhou- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/12/2018 postreply 09:37:29

• I am sure i will not 无理取闹 :). I will just -Smart- ♂ (111 bytes) () 09/12/2018 postreply 09:37:43